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Posted Friday, March 17, 2023
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Question For The LADIES
This is something that I have never asked a woman, and it's something very private and embarrassing the post or mention online because of how hateful and mean people can be. The question is: Would this be a turn-off, or cause disinterest: if a guy told you he has depression, or even worse. Very bad feelings on life? What are your feelings, and what would be your feelings if a guy told you? And how would you react?
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Yes and no. I feel like everyone now has depression. It's one of the most common mental illnesses there is now besides anxiety. So in general, it shouldn't be a turn off... But are you willing to seek help for it is the question. No one wants to be drug down by someone else, even if you love that person. Depression and suicidal tendencies in and of itself are treatable with professional help and guidance, but someone who isn't willing to acknowledge that they need help, or even want it for that matter, can be bothersome. I feel like those who don't seek help for that stuff put tremendous pressure on their partners in that they will be their reason for living. (I was there. I put so much pressure on my now husband until I got help and have profusely apologized for how emotionally manipulative I was when I was younger). But your partner isn't equipped to handle that stuff the way a professional is. π Hope that helped. A bit of a rant there.
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Dylan
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Gemini
Show them any weakness and that is all you will ever be in their eyes. They'll never want someone they deem weak no matter how cruel and unfair it is. We're machines to them, not human; and a machine with broken parts and long repair times are just seen as something to replace My advice is keep it to yourself, only express it to a therapist and family or close platonic friends you can be vulnerable around. It isnt right but it's the only way men with mental illness can exist.
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