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Posted Wednesday, March 9, 2022

1y

INFJ
Gemini

Question of the day

What's something really hurtful someone ever said to you ?

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Kelly

1y

ENFP
Sagittarius

"I'll be gone on Sunday" ~My mom while I was still in high school. She didn't ask where I'd go. On Sunday afternoon I went to the house to get the last of my things and the front door was already locked. I never found out what happened to my stuff. She never said goodbye.

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Kelly

1y

ENFP
Sagittarius

We reconnected later and after many years have a good relationship now. But that moment completely changed the course of my life.

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Jen

1y

ISFJ
Libra

1w9

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@Kelly I'm sorry Kelly. <>

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Nico

1y

ISTJ
Taurus

4w5

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Well,not really hurtful but ab 10y ago mom told me 'to not spit in plate that feeds you' while i was just defending my self from stepdad,thats when i stoped considering her as mom. My granpa when i was very young ab 10yo, said that no one will want a guy with kyphosis, thats kinda a reason i been trying all life and still do to take care of my body and posture,only problem is its congenital and i had no support in growing phase. Then other ppl told me mean stuff too but i dont even consider em😩

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Christine

1y

INFP
Sagittarius

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"I'm only with you cuz it's convenient."

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Eden

1y

INTJ
Pisces

"Stop talking, nobody is interested in your stories" new so called friends in sophomore with alot of unwanted eyes already looking into us. That hit hard and i had a difficult time conversing there on for another two years.

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Ann

1y

ENFJ
Scorpio

1w2

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In 7th Grade, my classmate asked the one person I considered my best friend if what am I to her. She looked me straight into my eyes and said "She's my optional friend." My father is verbally and emotionally abusing me. He says horrible things in even the little mistakes I make. One time I gently and calmly confronted that he don't need to say awful words because it hurts my feelings but he said "I don't care about what you feel". I just can't believe that my father would tell me that.

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Tania

1y

INFJ
Capricorn

A few days ago my best friend from the university times told me that I never loved someone sincerely so I wouldn't be able to understand her love to a boy.... cause I've never felt what love to opposite gender is..😥😥 taking into account that fact that she was aware of the fact that I was already in love...and it's painful to hear such words from your close people..🥺

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Jen

1y

ISFJ
Libra

1w9

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Sometimes it is not what they say but what they don't. I was young. My mom was a mess and left us. We had a family therapy session where I asked if she loved me. She said nothing. As an adult I grew to understand how messed up she was and how she truly couldn't do anything different. At 11 it was devastating.

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Mathew

1y

INTJ
Gemini

In middle school I was walking to my next class and this girl I've never met or seen before steps infront of me looks me dead in the eyes and says "Ew" it was short and simple but it ruined my day I'm nothing to write home about but good God that was not needed.

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Snaz

1y

INTJ
Virgo

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Mm, to be honest, I'm not very reactive with my emotions and I tend to forget negative remarks towards me after a bit so I guess I unconsciously brush off opinions. I can think of things people would normally find to be harmful that has happened to me, but I don't care about those things for some reason. Sure, maybe it got some reaction from me at first, but in the end, I just do whatever.

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Desi

1y

INFJ
Scorpio

6w7

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No one never really said anything hurtful. But this guy I've been friends with for 6 years thought I tried to use his card to buy hair offline. It wasn't me I swear but I know who did. He wouldn't let me explain or nothing.

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Luke

1y

INFJ
Libra

9w1

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"You're going to die alone."

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Olly

1y

INFP
Taurus

9w1

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"Don't let your sibling find out about [my pet] dying. She will be sad." - Mother Some context: Pet had to be hand-raised due to its parents rejecting it and leaving it to die. Round the clock care for the wee one. Had 5 wonderful years with pet. Half-sibling never interacted with pet. Mom and stepdad replaced deceased pet with a similar looking one.

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Daneya

1y

INTJ
Capricorn

“You need to do more”

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