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Neko🐾
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5I like to develop when it is a psychological subject, so i am going to be a little long, because I like the introspection and understanding Yes, it probably happens often, it is far more common than people realize while some might attribute it to false projection, I think it come from a wide variety of reasons, such as someone getting bored, being "unstable" or simply losing interest easily, as there are countless types of people out there, there not a single answer to that Personally, when it happens to me, it often comes down to a lack of reciprocity, specifically when I try to show interest by asking questions and the other person does not engage, or when I bring up several different topics and they ignore most of it to address only one part of the message, this can make me feel like I am bothering the other person, which leads me to put in less effort myself, because I am not someone who likes to impose or bother others I recently had this kind of experience with someone, even though I thought the vibe was not bad, I even read again all our conversations to verify if i could have said something that would have displeased her, but I see nothing. I think i was respectful from start to the end, so it is probably that we misunderstood each other, who know. I was really trying to show interest in the person, but I sometimes faced a "wall" by asking simple questions that did not get an answer and get ignored, like what she think of something for example, nothing really too personal. Perhaps she also did not like my way of analyzing things or overthinking, who knows xD I do not hold a grudge though and i wish her the best for the future, even if she deleted me overnight xD Sometimes it is just a misunderstanding on both sides, sometimes it is simply the way it is, as there is no absolute answer, so many factors and possibilities for the "why" the analysis could be endless, in addition we also live in an era where people have a hard time being consistent and always think they can find something better elsewhere, this habit of thinking that the grass is always greener on the other side and running away at the slightest difficulty instead of expressing how they feel if there something wrong and communicating is easier, but it's not the solution and so many people don't understand that 👀
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Addy
12d
ESTJ
Virgo
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7I think the problem with most conversations is that people have a tendency to not listen to the other side, so they run out of things to say, but they're not really interacting to begin with, they're just talking. If both sides listen, and interact, then the conversation can keep going for hours and hours, and move from subject to subject smoothly. (edited)
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Kinzo
23d
INTP
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7No, it's a matter of how willing both are to keep talking, it doesn't have to do with how it starts. (edited)
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Sebastian
23d
INTJ
Pisces
It depends on the people, their relationships, which can change over time. It also depends on what they expect from the other person, how the conversation will unfold. This applies not only to chatting, private messages online, but also in reality, face to face during meetings. I believe it works both ways. If one person engages in the conversation, the other does the same towards the sender, the conversation can flow energetically, even over time. If not, because someone brushes us off, ignores us, as if "the ball is only going one way," then it loses its shine, all its energy. I have had and still have such situations in life, where either I brush the other person off, or while trying to engage in the conversation, the other person does absolutely nothing, makes no effort, shows no interest. Then it happens that I wonder what I did wrong, or I am a boring person, having nothing interesting to convey, or simply I am not an attractive, interesting person to the other person and vice versa.
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Mirko
23d
ISTJ
Virgo
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1Maybe it's a tuning session, we could also change the subject. I'm quite into listening.
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Kurtis
23d
ENTJ
Sagittarius
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4Like the wrong food, it wasnt a satiated fulfillment. It was only an appetizer
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John-Brandon
22d
ENFJ
Libra
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7Not if you're finding alignment and discovering common values. Energy is good, but if nothing is there... then "acceptance" becomes the lesson.
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Yohan Liebert
23d
INTP
Cancer
Let's go find out
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Peace ☮️
13d
INTJ
Libra
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1Is that the difference between small talk and getting into deeper topics?
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matheus
23d
INFP
Gemini
It has happened, nowadays, when I see a pattern of behavior that this is going to happen, I already forget the conversation.
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Liebrecht
23d
ENTP
Pisces
It does happen if the reason why you started talking to the other person in the first place, was out of lust, and not mutual understanding. Im an active listener, and a big downside of it is that people tend to overspeak and oversay what they want to say, and its tiresome to an extent as well. I found that if we both give each other enough rope to just talk about anything, the conversation lasts a lot longer, and some healthy flirting in it can also elongate it
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Jaws
23d
INTJ
Taurus
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7🤷♂️.... not when I get transactional convos but that's rare
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Rishikesh Morajkar
23d
ISTJ
Taurus
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Araaf
23d
ENTJ
Cancer
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1Many time
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