For those that are single... If you could pick a partner who was 'good on paper'(yes, on paper means they have all the qualities you find desirable in a mate)and go through a conditioning program that would give you the elusive 'fall in love' chemistry with this person. Would you do it? Basically: arranged love marriage that happens synthetically. You choose the person(each other) logically and when you want to bond(fall for) them . Then you are induced to have 'feelings' for the person you chose in a program you both agree to participate in. Would you do it? Or would you be upset that it was artificially induced? (edited)

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Laurie

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It happens naturally, no need to induce it artificially. Arranged marriages (healthy ones, not with toxic individuals) tend to have high satisfaction rate because falling in love happens over time. The 'butterfly' feelings someone experiences when 'falling in love at first sight' is mostly lust and short lived and doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship.

Miserable

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I’d have to pass unless I could also pick physical traits as well that I liked/disliked. Looks open the door. Personality lets them in.

Christine

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I'd be interested to hear what some demise people think of this

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What’s something you’d do, if you knew you couldn’t fail? I saw this question the other day, and it really got me thinking. I’m interested to see what you all say🤔 (edited)