Posted Monday, November 10, 2025
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INFJ
Virgo
Which feels more real to you: what you show, or what you feel?
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Gemini
Both
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ESFP
... unfortunately, I show what I feel. 🥴
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Libra
What I feel.
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Aquarius
Both
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Scorpio
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ISFJ
Aries
First is one of the senses if you're meaning touch, or alternatively emotion which would be the underlying reality of your mental state/situation and the other is a false front put up to either impress, ease the mind of others so that you don't have to deal with hearing something that either annoys you or just would rather avoid even talking about in general. Multitude more reasons for the action, but this summarizes it enough I think or I'll just go on forever 😂😝 Imo first and if meaning personal feelings/emotion. Most with chronic issues will show they're okay for the sake of others not to worry but realistically 99% of the time they're not but they show that 1% (edited)
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INTJ
Aquarius
Feelings are always real but the story behind then is not always true. Authenticity happens when what we feel, what we think, how we act and reality itself are all on the same page. When our feelings originate from the past and are attached or expressed in relation to somethinng in the present, usually unrelated, it creates dissonace which is felt both as internal conflict and lack of authenticity to those outside. Healing begins when we start taking ownership of our own feelings, understand where they really come from (spoiler: it’s usually not the ex) and finally make peace with them. This is painful and slow, but worth it because it allows to bring ourselves clean and authentic into genuine relationships. (edited)
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