Why is it when someone is chasing a girl /guy “who isn’t interested” is making them more wanted . But once the person who gives back the same energy by chasing back they lose interest 🤔

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Why is it when someone is chasing a girl /guy “who isn’t interested” is making them more wanted . But once the person who gives back the  same energy by chasing back they lose interest 🤔

Juan · Accepted Answer

The thrill of the chase is greater than the kill.

Jesse · Answer

It sounds like a dynamic issue. If there is a hunter amongst the two, the chase needs to be eternal. It's primal energy, predator/prey play. Very simply, it doesn't sound like a dynamic thats working out too well for whoever you're referring to.

Ayush · Answer

We seek for validation. If we get one from someone earlier then we chase on to the next thing.

Jake · Answer

It’s definitely a mental imbalance I would believe but I think this is why it is important to self reflect & practice gratitude maybe some are use to winning for others it may be a miracle everything comes down to perspective mostly .

Phillip · Answer

Thrill of the chase

Los · Answer

Probably it has to do with emotional addiction. Not sure yet.

Seb · Answer

Since stone age we are all conditioning for hunt 🤣

Samay · Answer

It depends on level of attractiveness and pull & push dynamics you apply

Brandon · Answer

People like what they can't have and don't appreciate what they get.

Why is it when someone is chasing a girl /guy “who isn’t interested” is making them more wanted . But once the person who gives back the same energy by chasing back they lose interest 🤔

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The thrill of the chase is greater than the kill.

It sounds like a dynamic issue. If there is a hunter amongst the two, the chase needs to be eternal. It's primal energy, predator/prey play. Very simply, it doesn't sound like a dynamic thats working out too well for whoever you're referring to.

We seek for validation. If we get one from someone earlier then we chase on to the next thing.

It’s definitely a mental imbalance I would believe but I think this is why it is important to self reflect & practice gratitude maybe some are use to winning for others it may be a miracle everything comes down to perspective mostly .

Thrill of the chase

Probably it has to do with emotional addiction. Not sure yet.

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