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Attracting the Opposite Sex

What holds more weight, physical looks or personality? I know it can be much more complex than these two factors. What other factors would you include, personally?

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K.Sandra

K.Sandra

1mo

INFJ

Virgo

2
1

At most first will be looks but next personality. Because any perfect look will not keep anyone closer if the person is zero or weirdo

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Cee

Cee

1mo

INTJ

Virgo

8
7

Depends. I feel like you can connect with someone you don't find visually appealing. Once there's a connection there can be love. It's a matter of how good the personality is and how well you mesh together.

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Eber

Eber

1mo

INTP

6
7

80% percent of what we do is visual. Physical attraction will be priority with majority of the people.

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Jason

Jason

1mo

INTJ

Cancer

5
6

Looks gets a person; personality/character keeps a person.

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Luke

Luke

1mo

ESTJ

Aquarius

Physical at first, then attraction can build after getting to know someone overtime. Although this won't happen if the attention span and patience meter is low.

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Boy

Boy

1mo

ESTJ

Virgo

8
7

On dating apps, almost 100% looks. Outside of dating apps, I'd say about 75%? Ish I often see striking or attractive people, but quite often just thinking "wow" and continue on with my journey. And sometimes only after meeting or seeing that person more often, I realize that I'm actually attracted to them. And if I'd were to add a factor, it would most likely be "confidence" though that's not quite correct, but saying their "aura" or something among those lines i find dumb and to esoteric.

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