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Posted Thursday, February 20, 2025
1mo
INTJ
Attracting the Opposite Sex
What holds more weight, physical looks or personality? I know it can be much more complex than these two factors. What other factors would you include, personally?
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Eber
1mo
INTP
80% percent of what we do is visual. Physical attraction will be priority with majority of the people.
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Jason
1mo
INTJ
Cancer
Looks gets a person; personality/character keeps a person.
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Boy
1mo
ESTJ
Virgo
On dating apps, almost 100% looks. Outside of dating apps, I'd say about 75%? Ish I often see striking or attractive people, but quite often just thinking "wow" and continue on with my journey. And sometimes only after meeting or seeing that person more often, I realize that I'm actually attracted to them. And if I'd were to add a factor, it would most likely be "confidence" though that's not quite correct, but saying their "aura" or something among those lines i find dumb and to esoteric.
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