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Does the need for love really come from our feelings, or from the fear of being alone?

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Andrei

Andrei

1mo

ESFP

Scorpio

Is just nice to be with someone 😌

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James B

James B

1mo

INFP

Capricorn

3
2

Why not both?

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Michele

Michele

1mo

INTP

Virgo

5
4

For me it comes from having someone I like to share my time with, but I can live well also by myself, I kinda passed that phase of I need a woman at all costs 🤣

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Waynez

Waynez

1mo

ISTP

5
4

Ngl I'm satisfied of what I've accomplished so far in life; I think it would be amazing to share it someone whose just as geeky and hilarious as me but also has her own thing going on/independent. Be good to bounce ideas with or play a prank on🤣 etc.

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Lovely

Lovely

1mo

ENFP

Pisces

As we sit in the house never going out wondering why they can't read minds through the walls. Lol. Hello stranger, why are you not knocking on doors like the sales person of love that you are. Lol. I mean, even I can laugh at myself. (edited)

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Sy

Sy

1mo

ENFJ

Gemini

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5

It is luckier to be in a good relationship with yourself than being in an abusive relationship with someone else. 🤗🤗🤗 (edited)

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Marzouk

Marzouk

1mo

ENFJ

Capricorn

2
1

you look beautiful and cute sure you have a lotof people loving you

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Stephen

Stephen

1mo

ESTJ

Pisces

8
7

It's both. People may not like admitting it, but fear of being alone is ingrained in the human psyche. All animals look for companionship. Some more than others.

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Ranveer

Ranveer

1mo

ESTJ

5
4

I would say it comes from being alone

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Oz

Oz

1mo

INTJ

Libra

From the feelings. Ive been single 10 years. I have no friends i do everything alone not afraid. Just wish I had a companion but im not good enough for anyone

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Scarpion

Scarpion

1mo

ISTP

If you are alone you are happy

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Matt

Matt

26d

ISTJ

Virgo

6
7

Ms. I'm OK with dying alone, I'll take that over being disrespected, taken for granted, or a meaningless relationship. So as far as I'm concerned I'm gonna hafta go with feelings.

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