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Yeah Hi there. How do I interact with people who don't even wanna engage?? Like they act all invested in the requests and then drop the ball once the conversation starts. Like HELLO?

It's like they all secretly expect me to carry the whole conversation. And I'm already going out of my comfort zone to even talk to them ,I don't have the spoons and I am sick and tired of having to keep connections alive! It's like all my life Ive just been begging for scraps of attention and they drop me immediately once I expect them to care and come back on their own for once.

ITS THE BARE MINIMUM TO HAVE A CONVERSATION DAMNIT!!!!

Jaws · Accepted Answer

Yeh folks here are a special breed like they have no idea how this conservation system works.  It's almost like they're just here to kill time and validation then disappear 🤔

Moony · Answer

Like I already have this system where I only bother with the ones that actually write first and red my profile, if they're still alive after that they already survived the hardest part , then I message back and suddenly, poof ,all investment gone forever

Hamza · Answer

Give your energy to people who make the effort to keep in touch with you

𝑴𝒔. 𝑴𝒊𝒔𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒆𝒇 · Answer

This happens a lot both here and other platforms. The dry texters, avoidant and nonchalant combined 🤦🏽‍♀️

Max · Answer

It's the problem with online dating sites. People get interested in someone, but quickly find someone else to move on to. Always looking for someone better before they've learned to get to know to one they have now.

Sirr Nigel · Answer

A Queen doesn’t have to press or beg, nor does she deserve or accept scraps but if it is something desired. The mutual energy and effect must be given but my advice, only if it is received and returned. Don’t fit in just find your place or let it find you

Hunter · Answer

Just ignore them not worth the time

Jesus · Answer

Idk seems kinda odd for poeple to not be invested if they messages you. But it could be fear.

Oz · Answer

Prolly just the men your chasing. I have the same problem on 3 different dating apps

Matt · Answer

We never get that far. New territory.

Luci · Answer

I'm not sure how to message people directly yet. Just made my profile today. Anywho, before I start my day I just wanted to send ya 🫐
I hope you're able to legit chat with peeps. It gets frustrating going through the rounds at times.

Erick · Answer

Statistical anomaly.

Bryan · Answer

I fell the same way. Its like people expect you to out in all the effort and try and if u dont either you the bad person or just get completely ignored. Best to spend the same amount of energy as ppl give you and you'll see who's real and who's not

Nasti · Answer

I feel the same way. It's exhausting and demotivational 😭

Riz · Answer

What to say... No words for your innocent wishes

Bendak · Answer

Honestly I try to setup a date in the first few messages I hate texting

Brandon · Answer

Yeah people can be very fickle. If I had to guess, I'd say they must not have felt any chemistry, or they might have found whatever it was they were looking for with someone else.
There are also a lot of people who get busy and distracted by life and end up forgetting where they left off. Could be other reasons too but that's what comes to mind.

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Yeh folks here are a special breed like they have no idea how this conservation system works. It's almost like they're just here to kill time and validation then disappear 🤔 (edited)

Like I already have this system where I only bother with the ones that actually write first and red my profile, if they're still alive after that they already survived the hardest part , then I message back and suddenly, poof ,all investment gone forever

Give your energy to people who make the effort to keep in touch with you

This happens a lot both here and other platforms. The dry texters, avoidant and nonchalant combined 🤦🏽‍♀️

It's the problem with online dating sites. People get interested in someone, but quickly find someone else to move on to. Always looking for someone better before they've learned to get to know to one they have now.

A Queen doesn’t have to press or beg, nor does she deserve or accept scraps but if it is something desired. The mutual energy and effect must be given but my advice, only if it is received and returned. Don’t fit in just find your place or let it find you

Just ignore them not worth the time

Idk seems kinda odd for poeple to not be invested if they messages you. But it could be fear.

Prolly just the men your chasing. I have the same problem on 3 different dating apps

We never get that far. New territory.

I'm not sure how to message people directly yet. Just made my profile today. Anywho, before I start my day I just wanted to send ya 🫐 I hope you're able to legit chat with peeps. It gets frustrating going through the rounds at times.

Statistical anomaly.

I fell the same way. Its like people expect you to out in all the effort and try and if u dont either you the bad person or just get completely ignored. Best to spend the same amount of energy as ppl give you and you'll see who's real and who's not

I feel the same way. It's exhausting and demotivational 😭

What to say... No words for your innocent wishes

Honestly I try to setup a date in the first few messages I hate texting

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