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Marie
Marie

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Why people like seeing people’s insecurities and problems?

I noticed that posts from girls telling that they are feeling bad, or feeling ashamed of their bodies, feeling missing someone get a lot of likes and support, more then when they just post their normal thoughts, instead if they post something not about problem or emotions, they would have more h a t e ful comments then if they post something negative about themselves, like people love when you s u f f e r or something. Without jokes I think that it’s the theory of vulnerability and relatability, because in most of cases these problems are something that everyone experienced so it’s relatable to them, then just random thoughts that not everyone care about it’s just a shared humanity effect, so they feel more safe to share their stories too and it makes them feel that they are not the only ones who experience that.

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Fer

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I always thought it as a show of support

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Nick

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You literally went through the whole of it in that post. "Why?" And then you explained why. That wasn't so much a question but a course of understanding. I appreciate that you found your way from point A to B so cleanly

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Sam

Sam

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Gemini

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On self negative posts people probably don't want hate on someone that is already down. While nonvulnerable posts they are fair game. I agree vulnerability is something everyone can relate to.

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IceMelon

IceMelon

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Gemini

It makes us feel better about ourselves 😂 (edited)

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♡ Câz ♡

29d

ISTJ

Libra

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Maybe a variety of reasons those people post: Like the person could be telling others that they are not alone, and they are going thru what others might be going thru? Or maybe it helps to vent when they have nobody to vent to? Just like some people might do journalling to help them (Not me, but others who need ways to feel better)? Or for others' input on how their problems could be fixed? Everyone's different. They shouldn't be subjeced to hate comments if it's real...If they are faking it for attention, then totally different story (edited)

Maybe a variety of reasons those people post:
Like the person could be telling others that they are not alone, and they are going thru what others might be going thru? Or maybe it helps to vent when they have nobody to vent to? Just like some people might do journalling to help them (Not me, but others who need ways to feel better)? Or for others' input on how their problems could be fixed? Everyone's different. They shouldn't be subjeced to hate comments if it's real...If they are faking it for attention, then totally different story

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Zach

Zach

29d

INFP

Libra

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I enjoy intellectual conversations the most. But being me, I am going to relate with others if they are having a tough time and will try to help in whatever way I can.

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Wiam Ghos

Wiam Ghos

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Sagittarius

Well its the same effect when men are in a positive state. Women get attracted to them more. Cause women like positivity more. With women its a negative state where men get attracted more cause they wanna protecc.

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🚜 Deere 🚜

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ESTJ

Leo

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To get sympathy? Or validation?

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Jordan

Jordan

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INFP

Capricorn

9
1

I think our lives all have complex mixes of positive and negative. When someone shares negative, it comes across as asking for help/support to me. When they share positive, it comes across as either neutral or offering support. I'm looking more for connection, so it's appreciated and refreshing to come across deep, complex thoughts and raw emotion of any kind. But I'm more likely to interact if I feel I have something to contribute. Solid positive thoughts don't really need anything added. So unless I have nuance to add or advice, I'm not too likely to respond. So in short, I'd agree vulnerability encourages others to let their guard down and connect/offer support, and that's likely a big part of the effect you're seeing.

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