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Half Alive

They say we only have one life. But what kind of life is it when we spend it trying to repair everything within us that has been broken? We gather the pieces of ourselves that have shattered, yet no matter how hard we try, they will never fit together the way they once did. And despite the... read more

Its called "Maturity"

The Mask

Anyone else?

Teach Your Heart 🫀

The Politics of Attraction

How well do you navigate the politics of attraction as an introverted type? By politics of attraction, I primarily mean the role you're apparently assigned and expected to play by those who deem you as a physically attractive person, and therefore feel compelled to give you their attention. If... (edited) read more

This is awesome!!!

Currently experiencing what specialists call "a total collapse of the central nervous system", derived from C-PTSD and my auto-immune disease. My words fail on how to describe it. My head feels like complete emptiness. I move, and yet I barely think. I wonder if this is how the buddhist nirvanna... read more

what is life ... ? what we are chasing ?

The loneliness of being the one who remembers others but is forgotten

There is a particular kind of loneliness that rarely gets acknowledged; the loneliness of being the one who remembers. You remember birthdays without reminders. You ask about the interview they were nervous about weeks ago. You remember how they take their coffee, the stories they told only once,... read more

Our brains

"A single bad experience can cause someone to completely dislike a food, place, brand, or activity. This happens because the brain uses strong negative emotions as a survival shortcut to warn against future harm."

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Jim Moriarty

Every fairytale need an old fashioned villain

How many of u support Judas was correct irrespective of religious beliefs That he betrayed Jesus for 30 silver coins.... Is money worth the regret that he felt later for betraying " innocent blood" of Jesus which made him to commit suicide

But didn't this led to the epic crucification of Jesus...for which he became the lord which people still worship till this date...if not the betrayal...had he been the God we r worshiping him today

Fear

So true "You cannot force someone to stop being afraid. Fear is an internal reaction, and trying to push or rush someone often makes them feel worse or unsafe. However, you can support them by building trust and creating a safe space where they can choose to face their fears at their own pace."

Beautiful Lies

Nobody hands you the lie all at once. They hand it to you one Tuesday morning wrapped in your own coffee mug, and you drink it because it's warm. That's the part people leave out when they talk about being deceived: how ordinary the delivery is. You remember the first time you noticed a gap... read more

What Do You Show First? Recently I’ve been checking posts from girls here, and I’ve noticed a lot of focus on attractiveness and body, but not much about personality, values, or what they actually want from life.

For me, it’s a bit of a red flag. There’s nothing wrong with feeling attractive, but if your body is mainly what you show, aren’t you mostly attracting men who value you for that? I find it much more attractive when someone knows herself, has principles, interests, and her own goals. Real... read more

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searching for someone interested in psychology/behavioral neuroscience/forensic psychology

Better question.

What do you say. To a musician. That doesn't even want to hear music. :-/

Money is just a tool

What do you think money is and why it was introduced and who introduced in society

Putting "don't be dry" in a bio is a funny paradox. It pressures people to perform instead of being real, which ironically leads to the exact stiff conversations they were trying to avoid.🤣 ​Anyone else had this thought? (edited)

Viewing Things

This is why it can be so incredibly hard to change how we view things. Even others perspectives and advice don't necessarily work. "When you hold an idea for a long time, your brain builds a strong path for it. New facts feel like a threat to that old path."

Growing Up Fast

I found this to be interesting: "Someone who bypassed superficial childhood illusions and understood the deeper realities of life early on views an attractive person through a lens of skepticism, neutrality, or profound depth rather than awe. When a person is forced to grow up quickly—whether due... read more

Just a question

Your choice

How do you differentiate between longing for love or social stimulation due to loneliness?

Share your thoughts! (My attempt at a very pensive look 😅)

Time Will Tell

Im going insane. And i love it

Looking for...

I guess deep down, what we all really need is a genuine human connection. At least for me, that matters a lot, even without sex or anything physical, I really value feeling deeply connected to someone. I also really like and respect people who understand themselves well, have their own principles,... read more

Peaceful nights

Emotional Maturity

How fast do you swipe in Dating Apps?

Do you judge someone's profile by their first photo? Or do you hover over their other photos, read their bio, and actually inspect the rest of their profile?

I am a bit lonely, searching for a friend to talk to. Just chat about something.

Do yoi ever feel like you do not belong anywhere? And that nobody cares really about your inner world? #introvertlife

"The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma" by Bessel van der Kolk 📘

My honest review🤓: I bought this book based on general recommendations, expecting a light psychological non-fiction read, but instead, I got 600 pages of powerful text that took me three whole weeks to push through like a total nerd🫣, despite my university background and love for psychology and... read more

Family.

Told my parents I was sick of them controlling every single thing I did, they told me therapy ruined me. A couple of words later, they don't want me going out with them anymore. LOL

Life

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Does anyone know the psychology behind humans fearing insects although logically we are much bigger and more powerful ??

Like seeing a coakroach would literally ruin my whole day , its scary , disghusting and you cant know its next move .. but the other day i was thinking : why? Like why we usually dont fear cats or dogs but we fear insects which are way smaller

I’ve noticed that if a conversation starts out super energetic it often quickly loses its spark on both sides Does that happen to you too?

Getting out of a funk

What helps you when you’re feeling unusually down? No interest in things that ordinarily bring you joy, less energy, lower mood, irritability, etc. How do YOU process those feelings?

i make the deepest of connections just to watch them flow away

Do you have something in your life right now that makes you angry or resentful towards someone? (Specific person or situation)