Noérah
Noérah

1mo

INFJ

Virgo

2
1

Tell me, what's your biggest red flag?

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Joshua

Joshua

1mo

INFJ

Scorpio

9
8

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This one. It's at least 5 times bigger then me.

This one. It's at least 5 times bigger then me.

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K

K

1mo

INTP

Aquarius

6
7

I absolutely judge people based on how they treat animals, especially insects.

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Fredric

Fredric

1mo

INTP

Sagittarius

While scoping out someone online the “Link in bio” leading to that Only page… it’s like a May Day Parade.

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AJ

AJ

1mo

INFP

Taurus

6
7

At times I can be extremely distant (that’s doesn’t mean I’m angry with anyone or miserable) it’s something I grew up doing

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Robert

Robert

1mo

ISFP

Taurus

8
7

That depends — are we talking dating red flag, friendship red flag, or “why HR keeps side-eyeing me” red flag? 😏

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Etienne

Etienne

1mo

INFJ

Aries

9
1

The redest of all the redishly redish red flags is undoubtfully when someone is asking what is the biggest red flag. 🙂‍↔️

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laila♡

laila♡

1mo

INFP

Gemini

6
7

I can be hot and cold, especially when i need time to recharge

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Carlan Wray

Carlan Wray

1mo

ENFJ

Gemini

2
1

I'm autistic and communicate in a way that many find upside down or perceive as... manipulative perhaps? It results in a very red flag regardless.

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Mori

Mori

1mo

INFP

4
5

Having consistently bad luck AND somehow a lot of free time and money all at once

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Nick Orlando

Nick Orlando

1mo

INTJ

5
4

I eat poptarts in bed.

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Mike

Mike

1mo

INTJ

Sagittarius

9
1

Substance usage to function day to day. Its not a deal breaker, but as your friend, I'll help you through it.

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J-Klamp😜🐒

J-Klamp😜🐒

1mo

INFJ

Sagittarius

6
7

Lack of confidence.

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Erick

Erick

1mo

ENFP

Gemini

Selfishness

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Oz

Oz

1mo

INTJ

Libra

I've been single ten years. Im fat im ugly im broke. No car. live with my parents.

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Matt

Matt

26d

ISTJ

Virgo

6
7

As in biggest red flag that I see in others or what I feel someone would see in me?

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