What parts of your personality seem contradictory??

Question

I’m an INTJ and 9w8 and that usually throws people off- confused myself with it growing up and learning typology, but now it’s fun to see others reactions to a “mastermind peacekeeping aggressor” 😜🥰🤌🏼

Christopher · Accepted Answer

I get ENTJ and INTJ like 50/50. If I'm ENTJ it's that I have social anxiety. If I'm INTJ it's that I like to socialize and I don't mind talking in front of people, being on stage, getting to know strangers, etc. Although technically introversion doesn't mean you don't like those things, just that they make you tired.

I also don't have any issues with emotions. I just don't use them when problem solving and I think they shouldn't be considered when making most decisions. Unless it's a decision about an interpersonal relationship or something.

FDR · Answer

People think I am fake introvert because of my aggression.🤦🏽‍♂️

P · Answer

I'm an INTJ that is not into conflict. 😉

I also tend to be interested in stories, especially the stories people tell themselves about who they are and what is going on. Not because I think they are valid, but because knowing them allows me to interact with people more efficiently.

That is, humans are not generally objective, so objective reasoning is rarely persuasive. Tapping into the stories that they tell themselves allows a much more efficient road to convincing them to do what I need them to do.

What parts of your personality seem contradictory??

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People think I am fake introvert because of my aggression.🤦🏽‍♂️

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