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Would you like to have a girl (wife ofc) who'd earn more than you? Men with no preference, skip the poll ❤️ I'm sorry for not adding the option :/ (edited)

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Where's the box I can check for "I have no preference"?

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Woooooow. What's wrong guys? Yall don't wanna go to work? Let her raise the kids and have nice nails. You're a man. Your grandfather was on the beach getting shot at watching his friends die at 18. What were you doing?

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I think I'd make a great house husband tbh I love cooking and don't mind doing domestic chores especially if it's for someone I love and care about, meanwhile a 9-5 office job is unending psychological torture.

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It's strange because I'm all for equality and fair responsibilities across the whole relationship. I don't like if this or that falls to me simply because I'm a man or vice versa. With income it wouldn't stop me from dating or marrying a woman who made more than me. It's a very small factor. But I would feel a bit... lost? Immasculated? Traditionally a man's role was to be the primary breadwinner so if I'm not doing that, what am I doing? She's the pretty one. She makes the money now too. I don't want kids so caregiving isn't in the equation. I would contribute to house chores and bills, we'd share that. I'd feel like a little boy running around with dad who has the money haha. Idk how to explain it, does that make sense? (edited)

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While I wouldn't mind if a woman won more as long as it isn't used as a weapon of control and disrespect towards me. Money doesnt give you access to do those things because every persons journey is different. Some are fortunate to be financially stable while others have to work hard to be stable. That shouldnt dictate who does what since a relationship/marriage is a Team effort rather than individually.

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i’m uncomfortable with my girl providing for me.

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77% of "men" without balls, who will be abandoned by this girl when these men lose their significance for her)

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Women.. questions to all women: if a man puts on make up and looked way better than you look.. a) do you even care... No .. you don't care.. It's the same thing.. Men are supposed to protect and provide.. If you are already "provided" who cares ..it's less work on our side..

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I literally would not care lol, as long as she's working hard at something she enjoys, I'm glad. Though it would be nice to know that I'm covered if my earnings do come up short, still don't want to rely on that sort of thing though

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There’s nothing more important than a child having a loving mother to nurture their souls in their early formative years. This determines the soul of the person for the rest of the life pretty much. No money is worth my child growing up with a glowing loving spirit. So for me I would want my wife to put the children as the ultimate priority. And my priority would be helping her stay happy and healthy and the same for the children. Life is not about money.

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What's mgtow? And yes I'm not bothered if she does or doesn't even more than me.

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"I stay away from women bc I'm a mgtow(or redpilled)" Judging people from their political views is why there is so much hate in the world shame on you. And to answer your post like any reasonable person would say it doesn't matter who makes more. What a toxic post to not even include that. Wonder how your relationships have been? (edited)

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Most ment don't care about women's finances, it's not something the top of the list, not like for the most women, who rarely would date a long term a guy who earns less in general

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Ima just say it, this feels like fishing for the awnser you want, without including an a don't care option and saying we should just skip the poll your skewing the results beyond repair But any way to give an awnser idc either way, (edited)

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None of the above. Don't care what my partner earns, just care who they are.

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No pref as long as it's a happy life together. Where's that option?

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I can't imagine being afraid of a partner who makes our lives easier together. Who cares who makes more, as long as we're sharing the whole together it literally should not matter. If some kind soul is willing to share their life with me, they've already overpaid :)

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I would say,. That,. I would hope I had a great and decent job,. Because I am the man,. And would want to be able to give my girlfriend or wife the option to choose,. If she wanted to work,. Go to school,. Stay home,. I would want to know her ideas,. Dreams,. Goals,. For herself, and then if she decided to go to work and made more than me,. I would be okay and fine with that,. Because it's not a competition,. We are a team and we work together,. I will always support her,. Not just financially,. But emotionally,. Spiritually,. And intellectually,. And I know she would do the same for me,. The only time I would put my foot down and take control of the situation,. I would listen to her presentation,. But if she needed something from me,. Like an organ, or two,. That if she doesn't get it soon she will die,. Even if it was going to cost me my life,. I would do it in a heartbeat 💓

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Hell yeah, from now on we get the large combo instead of medium

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I would love that honestly and why not 😂 she'll help you grow more then anyone in life

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Money Helps The Living And Social Status, but Never Includes the Character, so it Doesn’t matter.

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Toxic

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Sure,they need good women who can listen to them

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Cmon guys who don't want a girl that will stop you from going to work.

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As for me I feel that as long as we love each other then it doesn't matter to me.

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My friends (girls) earn more than me. We never thought or discussed about money.

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I wont like it, but if it does then I wont fight it. Thing is im competitive af, so I know I would increase my income one way or another to balance things at home. I like to be the provider. 💪

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It don't matter to me, how much a woman makes doesn't make her unattractive or attractive.

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That's never been on the table for me before mostly I would like to have a girl that made money it's irrelevant to me who makes more if they brought some sort of finances to the table out of appreciate it of it

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No preference but being part of a power couple sounds awesome

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Always

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Yup, more money for me it is

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Earns more or less should not matter. Important thing is love, affection, bonding, compatibility

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What about us guys who want a relationship but dont care about marrage because we dont need a document or a rock to prove we love each other and dont think the government needs to be involved in our relationship

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Her ability to make money isn’t a priority in itself. What matters more is her attitude because of it.

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Doesn't matter how much she makes honestly

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There's nothing bad on a partner earning more than yourself :)

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I'd not care If the girl I'm with is rich or poor as long we are in love that's all that matters

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