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Posted Monday, March 21, 2022
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Is it just me or you can't flirt over text too? Like, I'm actually proud of the way I can flirt in person but over text I'm a goner. It doesn't matter how much I like the person, I just can't do it 😭 I think its because I use my confidence in my looks to flirt and without being there in person I get self conscious and can no longer do it because I think my photos all look bad and also body language is important to me bc I cant tell how the person is feeling if i cant see them. Is there any other possible factors?
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I think some people can definitely flirt better in person and some better online. Usually through texts, I’m guessing people tend to focus more on the words and the vibes they give off and many times they tend to read way too deep into it. Like, irl it’s reasonable to assume that someone could be flirting with another person even through body language and the vibes aside from the way they speak, but through text I personally think it’s way safer to assume less unless they are being hella direct, yet people make much more bold assumptions that they are being hitted on when exchanging texts- because they tend to notice and like to hear/read things when they are said verbally (it’s more easily delivered to their brains to comprehend). People often get the impression that I’m flirting with them over text even when I’m just being my friendly self most of the times and I’m like, “They better get over themselves.” It’s weirdly way easier for many to assume, so I’m sure you’ll be good at it than you think 😂. Unless you want to be direct, I suggest asking them subtle questions in which their responses do implicate they are interested in you. But I wouldn’t beat around the bush way too much. (edited)
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