internal committee

what’s your kryptonite?

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what does it mean if i often feel like my heart is broken?

That feeling when u get what u always wanted....but u r not interested in it anymore now

Before you become someone's trauma, PLEASE think twice (since we are on dating app, I need to at least try to say this clearly)

This is one of the cruelest things about trauma: someone else makes the choice to betray you, deceive you, and inflict deep emotional pain, yet you are the one left carrying the consequences. They caused the wound, but you are the one who has to live with it every day. You are the one who has to... (edited) read more

Purpose-driven| Not self focused

It's already been unfolding for over a decade now hahahah❤️🙈 Excited for the days ahead because I know Daddy will continue to use my story to bless others. 🥰 Thankful for every pain, rejection, embarrassment, criticism, sabotage, betrayals, deception,closer doors !! None of it was wasted! Can't... (edited) read more

Three Ways to Care

Why Labels?

I saw someone on social media ask during Pride why people "need so many labels." The more I thought about it, the more I realized that many of us already had a label long before we found words that fit. Broken. Wrong. Too much. Not enough. The point isn't to collect labels. It's to replace... read more

For my brothers..

Are You Happy?

Sometimes I want to ask you a question. Are you happy today? Because even if what happened to you was real, even if it was unfair and painful, it belongs to the past now. The people who hurt you are no longer living your life for you. But sometimes I wonder whether they might still be living... read more

Why are some people impossible to forget while most others fade once you get over them?

Most people we encounter recede, even ones we were genuinely close to. We move on, the emotional charge dissipates and they blur into the background. But occasionally someone sticks in a way that feels almost involuntary and it doesn't seem to follow the logic of how significant the relationship... read more

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To meditate

Jobless

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Motivation

What is the most tough situation you've ever been and how do you let it be the flame that fuels you forward in this odd existence on our pretty rock in space?

Organic therapy 😶‍🌫️

Some one knew

Why does a meaningful connection terrify us so much

Are we more afraid of failing at establishing a connection or afraid that we might succeed

Fun psychology fact:

Your attachment style was decided before you could talk. Depending on how your caregiver reacted to your cries: consistently or inconsistently, will determine it. It can be fixed tho dw

Healing process 🍃

What's the most important thing you're learning to do in your healing process?

A mother’s love 🤍

Contrarian

Ever wake up and just wanna debate and be a contrarian for no other reason than to shake things up, but like in a chaotic good way?

I shower in 100 Celsius because...

A. My mom told me to, but don't worry, i wont grow into her... B. I love to see men suffer. C. Other. D. All answers above.

Do not ignore the effort of a person who tries to keep in touch, it’s not all the time someone cares.

Love yourself. Forgive yourself. You can’t love and forgive other people, if you don’t, first of all, love and forgive yourself

Одна з пісень Florence + The Machine починається з цікавих рядків. Вони про те, що ти можеш кохати і пробачити когось, лише кохаючи і пробачивши себе самого. А що якщо її переінакшити? Я вивчаю свій крайній досвід з людиною, і все більше розумію, що якби ці відносини відбулись - я б ставив свої... read more

Are we doing this wrong ?

Perhaps the reason we struggle to find "the one" is that we search for someone to complete us, as if we are missing a vital piece of ourselves. We look for a partner to fill our emotional gaps, to make us feel whole, to provide what we believe we lack. But the opposite advice, that we must first... read more

Curious. Tell me the most human thing about you

What makes you feel real, tangible, what atmosphere suits your body the best, where are you most comfortable? Because I subscribe to Dead Internet Theory, challenge it with me.

Short Term Relationships

Personally, I can't understand why anyone would want a short term relationship... Like, even if it just ends up a fling or one night of fun, there is still something sacred shared between two people. I believe the only relationships that matter are the ones that last, that being said, why do so... read more

i looooove being alone, it’s the best part of my day

Who here isn't in a situationship

If you are, talk to me about it. If you aren't and get it, we may get along. If you're not and cannot fathom it, just move along. :)

what’s one thing you’re struggling with right now?

having a solid 9-10 hours of sleep every night drastically improved my quality of life

Hey

What's a small thing that instantly makes your day better?

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In my opinion, no one should enter a relationship or have children before addressing their psychological issues and learning how to manage them. Healing yourself isn't a luxury—it's a responsibility to yourself and to the people who will share their lives with you.

paradox

Still does…

I intentionally avoid using people's name when talking to them I feel some kind pressure on me if I do so I avoid but I just realised today there is this specific friend whenever I talk with her I say her name without even realising it so now I'm even surprised by own self

I wonder what does that mean psychologicallly? Is it my brain and subconscious made her safe person? She is like a sister to me I often think wish she'd be my sister by blood as well (edited)

i hope u heal from things u don’t speak about

Mindfulness

This made me pause. A little kindness goes further than we think

Good morning 🌞

Here is a question...what do you all think

Curiosity

I think curiosity is one of the most attractive qualities a person can have. What’s something you’ve been obsessed with learning lately?

i love staying up late at night. no one expects anything from you