Marvin

1y

INTJ

Scorpio

7

8

My height. As in, how short I am. It's my only major insecurity/thing I hate the most about myself. I'd be okay/so-so at 6'1"/185 cm, but would be truly happy at 6'5"/195 cm, like I was originally supposed to be. That's what I'd change about myself. Here I am at 180 cm with all the women and middle school children at that same size, while my best friend growing up (a woman) ended up at 183, and all my male friends around 187-195. Even my ex partner was 191 (yes that's tall for a woman, but still.) I don't care if I'd be "less short" somewhere like Indonesia or rural India where men are commonly 177; by North American and northern European standards, I'm still a dwarf. I don't care if some men are even shorter than me; I'm still not tall regardless, because of a medical condition from childhood. I hate it. (edited)