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Posted Saturday, November 26, 2022
1y
INTJ
Leo
Does "Accept Me for Who I Am!" Sound Like "Lower Your Standards To My Level!"?
I see quite a few posts from people stating that everyone should accept them for "who they are" and they refuse to make any changes to "please others", so I have a two-part question: Is it better to remain stagnant as a person and expect others to adjust their own concepts of what a good or interesting person is? Or should you remain in a constant pursuit of self-improvement to be the kind of person others simply want to be around? And does it not seem as if telling others that they need to lower their standards of behavior in order to accept you, a sign that you are in fact worried about the acceptance of others? I do not understand the mentality of entitlement and self-absorption that this kind of viewpoint requires.
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You should only ever change yourself for yourself. Don't change for other people, rather let other people inspire you to change. This requires introspection which is rarely easy. Live your life the way you want and you will inevitably meet the people you want to be around, no compromises required.
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