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Jul 10, 2026

What's the hardest thing to forgivein others, or in yourself?

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Forgiving myself is harder. I cannot blame anyone but myself because it's my own choice, my own action that caused the damage. I am my worst critic, judge and jury. (edited)

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Being mocked, being deceived, even for a good cause, and consequently seeing one's trust betrayed. As for myself, probably hurting (even indirectly) and disappointing the people I love the most. Betraying others' trust.

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Cheating

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Breaking someone’s trust

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Betrayal

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The hardest thing I can’t forgive someone for is lying, and not valuing me, and also when they act nice in front of me but tarnish my name behind my back. However, the thing I can’t tolerate the most is cheating. Even if that person is not my partner, if they betray their own partner, my respect for them will instantly disappear. For me, cheating isn’t always about physical relationships. Chatting or messaging with another woman or man while claiming to be single, when in reality they have a partner, is also a form of betrayal. I will not forgive that. And the hardest thing I can’t forgive myself for is when I let fear or overthinking hold me back from seizing opportunities. It’s really hard to change that habit of mine, but I always try to be braver in making decisions.

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Not having money when I crave a corn on the cob ☹

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In others - betrayal and people using others for their own benefit. In myself - a lack of effort or vision. I must continue to try and not give up.

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Being overly confident and getting betrayed

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When they treat you like an idiot or take away your worth

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It's hard to forgive myself for loosing the people I actually like all because my actions couldn't be as perfect as I wanted it to be

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The cheating and Disrespect

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Living without value.

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Hardest thing to forgive in others is how they behave with me when I need them most and for me i never forgive me doing wrong with others

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Human beings are flawed, there is always something to think about.

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Lies and manipulations

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Betrayal

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People not giving me all their bottles at parties is very hard to forgive

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Forgiving others only works if we also learn to take care of ourselves. It's pointless to apologize to someone if we allow them to hurt us again. For a friendship to work, we need to express our boundaries clearly and ensure that the other person understands and values them.

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Taking advantage of others or manipulation

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To waste one's life

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Forgiving myself is so much harder

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Lie in all cases

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Uhmm the hardest thing to forgive is yourself, because you have to live with your own mistakes every day.💁🏻

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Insincerity, betrayal

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I love myself, so I’ve already forgiven many of my failures. Because I did the best that I could, with the Wisdom, Experience and Knowledge at the time to my best capability. We all have our obstacles and setbacks. But I continue to move forward. In other people? Betrayal, Back-stabbing, but I won’t hold on to bitter feelings either, unless the situation made it so.

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When someone disrespects you in front of others to look better. I can never forgive that.

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In others - cheating, manipulation & dishonesty. In me - mistakes I’ve made in relationships in the past. But I have also learnt from those mistakes. To not tolerate being poorly treated or me playing small anymore. I’m not settling for anything less than I deserve.

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Dishonesty

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Infidelity and lying

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Myself, I always try to see the best in people and that is usually my downfall

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I would say to forgive yourself. We are often harder on our own mistakes than on those of others because we know all our doubts, regrets, and what we would have liked to do differently.

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The others? They are unforgivable regardless. I, on the other hand, always forgive myself 😂

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The horns

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Mistakes. Small or large, everyone makes them, but even the smallest are not always easy to forgive. No matter how insignificant it may be, one might not get over it, and end up making an even bigger one.

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Betrayal and disappointment

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The lie

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