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Have you ever ghosted anyone, and why?

6/26/2024

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Lu

Lu

1y

ENFJ

Libra

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A༗

A༗

1y

ENFJ

Sagittarius

3
4

In general, I tell people "why" I don't think we should carry on talking but, unfortunately, some people don't seem to understand "brutal honesty".. I mean, I am usually very direct, and if they still don't get the message, then I just block or ghost, but it is definitely not a habit, nor something I want to do, it's very much last resort. 👀 (edited)

In general, I tell people "why" I don't think we should carry on talking but, unfortunately, some people don't seem to understand "brutal honesty".. 

I mean, I am usually very direct, and if they still don't get the message, then I just block or ghost, but it is definitely not a habit, nor something I want to do, it's very much last resort. 👀

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Imay

Imay

1y

ESTJ

Gemini

6
7

Yes, because he kept talking about aliens all the time😭

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G

G

1y

ENFP

Aquarius

9
1

no, because I don't want it to be done to me if the situation is in reverse.

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Mark

Mark

1y

ISTJ

Leo

Yes. They wouldn’t respond with more than one word. Wasn’t really a conversation to begin with

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Seneya

Seneya

1y

INFJ

Aries

Nope. Hate that stuff. If I don't like someone or don't want to keep the conversation going, I would tell them so. And I expect people to let me know as well. Ghosting is a very childish and immature attitude. (edited)

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Key

Key

1y

INFJ

Scorpio

6
5

Yes. Because Prince of all Saiyans. (edited)

Yes. Because Prince of all Saiyans.

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Lucía

Lucía

1y

ENFP

Leo

Never. Because I’m always communicative

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John

John

1y

INTP

Scorpio

7
8

I've ghosted a few people I met on dating apps. I don't feel obligated to entertain people.

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shannon

shannon

1y

INFP

Aries

2
1

yeah, when I can tell they are using me

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Brianna

Brianna

1y

INFP

Sagittarius

Yes. Only bc the vibe was creepy or they didn’t show any effort/interest

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Ermas

Ermas

1y

INTP

Capricorn

No, because I know what it feels like to be ghosted and I at least have the balls to say it to the other person

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Justin

Justin

1y

INFJ

Leo

I haven't ghosted anyone before. If we match and have a conversation going, I think it is proper to say why you are ending the conversation.

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Matteo

Matteo

1y

ENTP

Virgo

3
2

Reading all comments.. I'm lost. When you tell someone you don't like what's going on, you don't want smth anymore, you're uncomfortable with smth and that person keep going on.. ghosting is a natural consequence. But this is not even ghosting imho.. "Ghosting" is when you decide to do it without giving the other the chance to understand.. leaving that person clueless and hurt without apparent reason.. Am I wrong?

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Kyle

Kyle

1y

ENFJ

Pisces

I did once I did it only becuz she was being creepy and kept asking "how my skin felt"

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John

John

1y

INTP

Scorpio

9
1

I don’t ghost, I hibernate and ditch all my friends for months on end.

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0

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Tania DeLeon

Tania DeLeon

1y

ENFP

Aquarius

No as that is extremely rude

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Mademoiselle Amy

Mademoiselle Amy

1y

INFJ

Aries

6
7

So the infamous question of the year made it to QOTD huh.. Well done! …but to answers that, very unlikely unless they being highly suspicious etc.

So the infamous question of the year made it to QOTD huh.. Well done! 

…but to answers that, very unlikely unless they being highly suspicious etc.

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Kaushitaki

Kaushitaki

1y

ISFP

Libra

Cuz I'm a ghost

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Thomas

Thomas

1y

INFJ

Libra

Yes, because I wasn’t mature enough to tell them that it won’t work.. instead I ghosted them…

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Yuumi

Yuumi

1y

ESTJ

Cancer

No, I wouldn't want to ghost anyone because I am a fan of communicating with what is the problem and if you can't change then I will let it go.

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Conrad

Conrad

1y

INTP

Cancer

2
1

Ghosting someone? Please, I'm still waiting for them to finish their disappearing act on me 😐

Ghosting someone? Please, I'm still waiting for them to finish their disappearing act on me 😐

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Devon

Devon

1y

INTJ

Leo

9
1

Yes and sometimes the conversation is none existent despite my efforts, and the energy just isn't the best. Why pour energy into someone that doesn't even try back, you know?

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Jaime

Jaime

1y

ISTJ

Gemini

8
7

Always, for example some people will look at this comment and ghost me right then and there...🤣🤣🤣

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⚜️KUEEN⚜️

⚜️KUEEN⚜️

1y

ISTJ

Gemini

8
7

Nooo...I just don't put effort if they don't. (edited)

Nooo...I just don't put effort if they don't.

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Rhian

Rhian

1y

INTJ

Virgo

6
5

Nope🙅‍♀️

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Laura

Laura

1y

INFJ

Leo

My abusive ex. I was done.

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0

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🔆🥨🔅Koffy🔅🌰🔆

🔆🥨🔅Koffy🔅🌰🔆

1y

ESFJ

Sagittarius

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7

🤪🤣😄✌️👻 (edited)

🤪🤣😄✌️👻

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Wyatt

Wyatt

1y

INTP

Scorpio

I ghosted an entire friend group including a romantic interest many years ago. That's the only way to get clean and stay clean sometimes.

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Alex

Alex

1y

INFJ

Libra

2
1

personally I have not. I am usually on the receiving end, nearly all my matches so far have. but I try not to let it get me down!

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Melanie

Melanie

1y

INTJ

Aries

I never thought I would be that person, but I did ghost a few. I would talk to someone and they would give me flat responses, I would try 2-3 times to be excited about talking and if they continue to give me flat response I stop talking. I'm not gonna sit on my phone wondering how to continue the conversation and what to say next.

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Marcus

Marcus

1y

INFJ

Aquarius

2
1

No, but I’m the one that gets ghosted 🤣🤭🥸🥲

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1

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Max

Max

1y

INTJ

Taurus

4
5

Yes I’ve ghosted several people. Usually not on purpose, I’m just horrible at coming up with replies and thus procrastinate on replying. 😅

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0

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Tosin

Tosin

1y

INTP

Capricorn

No, I have never ghosted anyone.

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0

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Matt

Matt

1y

INFJ

Scorpio

6
5

More of a fade away, various reasons, cowardice or just didn’t want to be given a reason to stay.

More of a fade away, various reasons, cowardice or just didn’t want to be given a reason to stay.

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Krisztián

Krisztián

1y

ISTJ

Cancer

7
8

Nope, but if I would, then for a good reason

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