What's something you used to believe about relationships but no longer do?

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INTJ

Aquarius

That if you care and love for someone they will reciprocate. Find someone that reciprocates to you every step of the relationship. If they don't, it's not a relationship. It's a business arrangement that benefits them more than you.

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ENFJ

Libra

❌️❌️Live together ❌️❌️🚫🚫☢️☢️☢️⚠️⚠️⚠️🚮🚮🤣🤣

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

Not everything has happy ending... Not everything is fairytale... 🤣😆😂🤪🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️ Especially now dating and being with someone isn't same back in days... Most people love taking advantage or simply be cruel... 🙆‍♀️🙆🤦‍♀️🤦🤭🤭🤭 Remember you can't be with someone if you are not 100% whole hearted being yourself and being you! 🫠😉✌️ Let's just spread love, kindness, be compassionate and be positive! 🫶😍😊 Cheers! 🥰💖✨️🌻🌈

10mo

ENFJ

Sagittarius

"If they love you they won't hurt you" to which I say : "sure, buddy! 😂" 😋

10mo

INFJ

Pisces

I used to think that being in a relationship meant you had to lose your independence. Now I believe it's more about supporting each other’s individual journeys.

10mo

ENFP

Scorpio

We’re together forever! The first will be the last. Sike, if only dating was like the Disney movies. Yes, it’s cringe but dating nowadays is exhausting af It’s a grind tryna getting to know who might be the partner for the long run

10mo

ENFJ

Pisces

Trying to be what the other person wants is a good idea. ABSOLUTELY NOT! Be yourself! Bending your will to there's or trying to make someone like you by being diffrent or letting things slide only leads to pain. Be honest upfront, and communicate

10mo

ENFJ

Pisces

I used to believe that love alone could solve everything in a relationship—like if loved someone enough, it would automatically overcome all challenges. But I no longer think that’s true. Love is essential, but it’s not enough on its own. Respect, communication, shared values, and effort are just as important. Without those, even the strongest love can crumble. I’ve learned that relationships aren’t about just surviving the good moments but putting in the work to grow through the hard ones together. It’s not about fixing someone or being fixed—it's about evolving individually and as a team.

10mo

INFJ

Taurus

I used to believe love was like in the movies... Now I know that it is more like winning the lottery to find real love...

10mo

INTJ

Gemini

Love at first sight... lust- yes...love- no🤣🤣

10mo

INFP

That it was something beautiful and wonderful to have someone reciprocate the genuine feelings you gave as well as the same amount of work. 🤣🤣🤣 (edited)

10mo

INFP

Aries

That you had to live together in order for things to work out

10mo

INTP

💀

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INTP

Cancer

Communicating and keeping an open mind, as simple as it is, does wonders; though, can be easily forgotten in the moment.

10mo

ENFP

Taurus

The concept of "the one"....or similar. That feelings can overcome actions.

10mo

INFJ

Aries

Hmm.. nothing really.. I just know nothing is permanent, make the best out of it. Carpe diem!

10mo

ENTP

Aries

That long-term was the only way they worked (romantic ones that is) but my perspective has changed a lot.

10mo

ENFP

Taurus

That the other person will always do the moral thing and treat you right

10mo

INFJ

Gemini

That i could get one

10mo

ENFJ

Scorpio

Leaving when you fall out of love

10mo

ENFJ

Taurus

You can heal them with your love 🙂

10mo

INTP

Sagittarius

Exclusivity

10mo

ENFP

Libra

Getting too comfortable with the other half invites complacency

10mo

INTJ

Virgo

Attention, the more you care about someone, the more he will hate you and not love you, so stop giving attention.

10mo

ISTJ

Libra

Commitment, realtionship nowadays is like changing clothes.... If u don like this shirt u change.... 🫤

10mo

INFP

Aries

That every relationship, no matter how bad it gets can be resolved. Now i believe that some people are just not ment for each other

10mo

ENTJ

Libra

That there's only one kind

10mo

ESFP

Scorpio

If you’re in a relationship. The opposite person will love you like the way we love them. And they will be loyal with you. They’ll understand you in every way.

10mo

INFJ

Pisces

10mo

ENFJ

Sagittarius

That people will put all the effort to keep a relationship because people want a relationship to stick together forever, but these days, short-term relationship is just a norm. Sadly.

10mo

ISTJ

Scorpio

That both opinions mattered

10mo

INFJ

Aquarius

Happily ever after comes if you find your perfect match.. I realized that I've been dreaming of a fantasy kind of relationship all along. And I'm using it to escape my reality. I have a wild and vivid imaginations that sometimes I want my fictional characters to come to life which ended up messing the relationships that I have..

10mo

INTP

Aries

Communication because it’ll only work if the other person knows how to comprehend so it’s useless 😆

10mo

INTP

Scorpio

That the people in them actually like each other

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That if you care and love for someone they will reciprocate. Find someone that reciprocates to you every step of the relationship. If they don't, it's not a relationship. It's a business arrangement that benefits them more than you.

❌️❌️Live together ❌️❌️🚫🚫☢️☢️☢️⚠️⚠️⚠️🚮🚮🤣🤣

"If they love you they won't hurt you" to which I say : "sure, buddy! 😂" 😋

I used to think that being in a relationship meant you had to lose your independence. Now I believe it's more about supporting each other’s individual journeys.

We’re together forever! The first will be the last. Sike, if only dating was like the Disney movies. Yes, it’s cringe but dating nowadays is exhausting af It’s a grind tryna getting to know who might be the partner for the long run

Trying to be what the other person wants is a good idea. ABSOLUTELY NOT! Be yourself! Bending your will to there's or trying to make someone like you by being diffrent or letting things slide only leads to pain. Be honest upfront, and communicate

I used to believe love was like in the movies... Now I know that it is more like winning the lottery to find real love...

Love at first sight... lust- yes...love- no🤣🤣

That it was something beautiful and wonderful to have someone reciprocate the genuine feelings you gave as well as the same amount of work. 🤣🤣🤣 (edited)

That you had to live together in order for things to work out

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Communicating and keeping an open mind, as simple as it is, does wonders; though, can be easily forgotten in the moment.

The concept of "the one"....or similar. That feelings can overcome actions.

Hmm.. nothing really.. I just know nothing is permanent, make the best out of it. Carpe diem!

That long-term was the only way they worked (romantic ones that is) but my perspective has changed a lot.

That the other person will always do the moral thing and treat you right

That i could get one

Leaving when you fall out of love

You can heal them with your love 🙂

Exclusivity

Getting too comfortable with the other half invites complacency

Attention, the more you care about someone, the more he will hate you and not love you, so stop giving attention.

Commitment, realtionship nowadays is like changing clothes.... If u don like this shirt u change.... 🫤

That every relationship, no matter how bad it gets can be resolved. Now i believe that some people are just not ment for each other

That there's only one kind

If you’re in a relationship. The opposite person will love you like the way we love them. And they will be loyal with you. They’ll understand you in every way.

That people will put all the effort to keep a relationship because people want a relationship to stick together forever, but these days, short-term relationship is just a norm. Sadly.

That both opinions mattered

Communication because it’ll only work if the other person knows how to comprehend so it’s useless 😆

That the people in them actually like each other

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