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Is it more important to follow your heart or your head when making important decisions?

6/1/2025

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6mo

INTJ

Aries

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Listen to the heart and then make the decision with the head.

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

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Mind over heart. Your mind thinks through time, your heart thinks at the time. It's best to use both but your mind will do that for you.

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INFP

Gemini

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Is important to listen to both, they're both a part of me and valid, and matter in every decision i make

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

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Listen with your feelings which is the heart... Descide with your thoughts which is the brain... Balance is the key... 🧠🫀🫠✨️ Cheers! 🥰💕✨️🌻🌈 (edited)

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INFJ

Leo

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Use both. There are situations you need to follow your heart and those where you follow your head. Sometimes you follow both. I think always following just one will lead you to the same mistakes/problems. (edited)

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INFP

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Depends on the nature of the decision and on your values, goals, and circumstances. Follow your 🧠 when it's high-stakes or long-term consequences. When objectivity and logic are needed to cut through emotion. If you have reliable data or past experience to inform the choice. In situations where others are affected, and fairness or responsibility matter. Follow your ❤️, when the decision involves personal fulfillment, love, creativity, or passion. If your intuition keeps nagging at you despite all logic. When a choice aligns deeply with your core values and sense of purpose. If you’ve analyzed things to death but still feel stuck or uninspired.

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INFJ

Scorpio

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ENFJ

Aries

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I think it depends on the situation! I say most times I tend to follow my heart more

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6mo

ISFP

Cancer

Hope so heart ❤️

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ENFJ

Taurus

4
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Definitely your head first. Heart leads to impulsivity

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ENFP

Pisces

I use my head more than my heart, after a lot of trial and error the other way around in my 20s. Otherwise, standards don't actually exist. I hate to see young adults completely lose themselves in extremes on either end sometimes, because I've been there. It usually gets better with age. I know I forgive too much. These days, I know even if I already have forgiven, I wait for actions or I know I am not respecting myself. They may know I'm in pain more than them, that's fine. Once I figure out how much they actually don't care, I bounce back stronger than they think every time.

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INFJ

Libra

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ISFP

Cancer

Hope so heart ❤️

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INFP

Capricorn

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Definitely the head, letting your heart control you won't lead to right decisions most of the time. 🙏🏻

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ENFP

Capricorn

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made decisions from heart so always a bad decision...

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ENTJ

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I don’t follow the heart. I follow what works. Emotions are data, not directives. The heart doesn’t take responsibility for the outcome. It just feels. I’m the one who pays the price. What matters isn’t how I feel about a decision— It’s whether it moves me closer to what I’m building. I don’t let feelings make the call. I decide first. I feel later. That’s the difference between dreamers and builders (edited)

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

Think from your heart and then make rational decision using your mind.

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INFJ

Aquarius

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A right balance between the head (logical reasoning) and the heart (emotional and intuition) in decision-making can lead to satisfaction, happiness and a fulfilling life.

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ENTP

Cancer

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With the head. But always listen to your heart before that

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INFJ

Cancer

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Your heart may know what you want but it's your head that comes first when it comes to getting what you want. Your heart is a drive that can push you to overcome many things, but it's your mind that will organize it to achieve your goal. If I were to only use my heart I would most likely collapse and have an anxiety or panic attack because I'm not using my mind to rationalize how to get it instantly. With my mind I can plan things out accordingly so that one day I can wake up and have what my heart wants.

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ISFJ

Aquarius

Follow heart

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6mo

INFJ

My approach to life is to think before I feel. I've found that trusting my brain over my heart leads to better decisions and fewer regrets. It's a conscious choice that's served me well.✨🫶🏻😉

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ENFJ

Aries

Both are required 🤣 If you only put 🧠, you maybe taking an inconsiderate decision, and if you only put ❤️ , yoi may be taking a bad decision 🤣

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ENFP

Aquarius

Its always better to think something through, doesn't mean it always happens that way.

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INFP

Taurus

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For me I think it's a combination of both.

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ENTP

Pisces

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ENTP

Aries

Always follow ur head!

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INTJ

Scorpio

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INFP

Libra

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Hear what your heart had to say but ultimately follow with your head. Act logically- don't put yourself in a dangerous situation. But listen to your heart- don't put yourself in an emotionally damaging situation

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INFJ

Cancer

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7

Did we just have this question recently?! 💫

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ENFP

Virgo

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Both :) trust your gut instincts but also use a little bit of logic. My heart says eat a whole cake to myself. Brain says maybe don’t do that. Good compromise to be found :)

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INTP

Capricorn

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Being temperate in such situations is the best option. Mind and soul live in one body for a reason.

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ENFP

Aquarius

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Depending on the situation it's best to follow your head with bits and pieces of your heart mixed into your decision.

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ENFJ

Virgo

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Both just as much as each other your heart can show you lovely things as well as break you same with your head. Gut is always better I find

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INFJ

Pisces

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The heart can be flaky at times and the mind over analyzing everything..which can be good, but I have missed out on a lot opportunities listening to my head. So I am beginning a new era of listening to my gut. If I dont feel like running to the bathroom, it's a yes. If I'm hungry, its a maybe - gotta eat first. Lol

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6mo

INFJ

Aquarius

For me, the sweet spot is somewhere in the middle. You gotta get all the facts straight, use your brain to weigh things out, figure out the pros and cons like a responsible adult. But you also gotta check in with yourself, you know? Does it sit right? Does it line up with what's important to you? That little jolt of excitement or that knot you feel in your stomach can be a real clue. But you can't just follow it blindly you need your head to figure out why you're feeling that way.

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INFP

Leo

Both

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ENFP

Pisces

Drpends on the situation.

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