How do you know if that person's the one?

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ENTP

Taurus

You don't. It's not a "know" it's a decision. It's not a perfect person, it's someone who you choose to love while you respect thier flaws. It's someone who will see your vulnerabilities and love you regardless. These things take time, trust, and intentionality.

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ENFP

Aries

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You feel comfortable around them and conversation flows naturally

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ENFJ

Libra

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INTJ

Taurus

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Because they can stop incoming bullets by putting out their hand.

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INFJ

Sagittarius

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You can't be sure that someone is the one. But if you feel it, you will take the risk of being hurt if it is not the one. That's Love Love is unconditional You feel Home You feel Safe You feel Loved You feel unconditional Love You feel Wanted You feel Needed You crave the one (edited)

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ENTP

Libra

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When between the two of us, we have this

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ISFJ

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This can be answered in two parts, shared values and shared goals, the person is exceptionally patient and very understanding of your concerns.You feel safe with them, you can be vulnerable without judgment, and last but certainly not least they are in tune to you. (edited)

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INTP

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I’d love to know, because I’ve thought that a few times and been wrong each time.

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ENTJ

Libra

This is something I think only time tells

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ENFP

Leo

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INTJ

Cancer

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There is no one you want to annoy you more than that person.

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ISFJ

Capricorn

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That's up to your heart to decide. We never truly know who is the one. You just need to be The One for them.

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ENFP

Gemini

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Because she isnt the 2

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INTP

Aries

They love me like I love them.

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ISTJ

Sagittarius

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I do not believe in "the one" - that would imply that you only have one chance to find someone proper. There's billions of us out there, we're going to be compatible with more than just one of them. So keep trying d:

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ISFJ

Capricorn

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That's up to your heart to decide. We never truly know who is the one. You just need to be The One for them.

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INFJ

Capricorn

When your heart and mind works together you. It's like how much care, love, respect and attention you give and recive the same as what you have given to him or her.

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INFP

Libra

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Ehhhhh with respect I think if I knew the answer to that I- and many others- wouldn't be here...

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ISTJ

Scorpio

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If you feel safe with them.

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ISFJ

Cancer

You've run out of new stories for them and start repeating old ones and they love it.

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INFJ

Aquarius

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If hey can make me cry laughing or they can dance/sing

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ISTJ

Libra

when you feel at peace, contentment in your life together, wanting for nothing more🥰😊

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INTP

Capricorn

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when you're on your death bed and they stuck around till you died or they died and you were happy

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INTJ

Capricorn

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You don't

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ISTP

Leo

They don't give you a reason for them not to be!

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ISTP

Gemini

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We get a vibe wen that person is around you and that wen u realise that 💝❤️

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INTJ

Virgo

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Valentines day question! I'll pass!

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INTJ

Scorpio

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She makes time and looks for me, either with texts or calls, a healthy desire to know me and train together. When we have a fluid conversation and she has the courtesy to say: "Hey I gotta get busy, but i want to see you tomorrow, I send ya a text in the morning for a date in thr night, k? Love ya".

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INFJ

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When the feeling is mutual ❤️

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ISTP

Cancer

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My cats decide. They have very good intuition.

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INTP

Capricorn

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When you feel completely safe in their arms.

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ESTJ

Taurus

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Test them until they give up (then repeat).

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INFP

Gemini

Nothing feels forced. Everything just feels right.

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INFJ

Cancer

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beautiful replies, you feel loved, comfortable, they accepti your flaws, they make you feel beautiful, both of you have the same dreams, you feel safe… but still they might be ghosting you the next week. i can never know. i never knew.

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ESFP

Aquarius

Determining if someone is "the one" is a deeply personal and subjective matter. However, there are a few factors that people often consider when trying to ascertain if they have found their ideal partner. These factors may include: 1. Compatibility: Look for shared values, goals, and interests. Compatibility in areas such as communication style, lifestyle choices, and future plans can contribute to a strong and lasting relationship. 2. Connection: Consider the level of emotional, intellectual, and physical connection you have with the person. Do you feel understood, supported, and valued in their presence? 3. Mutual Respect: A healthy relationship requires mutual respect and admiration. Pay attention to how the person treats you and others, as well as how they make you feel about yourself. 4. Communication: Open and effective communication is crucial for a successful partnership. Can you openly discuss your thoughts, feelings, and concerns with this person? Do they listen and respond in a respectful and considerate manner? 5. Trust and Loyalty: Trust is the foundation of any strong relationship. It is important to feel secure and confident in the person's honesty, reliability, and loyalty. 6. Growth and Support: Consider whether the person encourages your personal growth and supports your aspirations. A partner who is supportive and encouraging can contribute to your happiness and fulfillment.

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ISTJ

Cancer

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You can feel it.

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INTP

Taurus

If they stay with you when you're at your worst

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INTP

Virgo

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You don’t.

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