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INFP

Capricorn

67

If someone wanted to impress you on a first meeting, what’s the easiest win?

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Jess

8d

INFP

Taurus

Impress? Being curious about one self and others. I feel sad that my bar is so low because it should be a standard but because of online dating culture I'm finding curiosity is actually rare

85

17

Sophia

8d

ENFJ

Scorpio

87

Is to be who you are personality and looks wise as you were online/calls before we met in person.

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6

Jessie

8d

ENTJ

Scorpio

Ice break with a good joke and I’m in! Where are all the corny jokes?

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16

Lily

8d

INTJ

Gemini

87

I think showing a real interest in what I have to say is a big win. Listening is such a nice touch!

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2

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8d

INTP

Sagittarius

91

Hold a conversation and actually show curiosity.

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1

AΰΌ—πŸ‚‘β³

8d

ENFJ

Sagittarius

34

Don't think I'm "easy' enough.. I've known my brothers most my/their lives. They still don't have a clue how to "impress" me. Sorry buddy.

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π”“Ž κ‘€κŒ…κ’κˆ΅κ² π”“Ž κ‚΅κ²κŒ…κŒ…κ’κ‘€κ€· κ‹–κŠΏ ꀷꁲꃔ꒐ꑀ꒒ π”“Ž

8d

INFP

91

Presence. Listen closely. Speak thoughtfully. And don’t try to impress me, try to understand me.

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7

Liz

8d

ENFP

Scorpio

Actually act like you wanna be around me

12

4

Mel

8d

ENFP

Pisces

A coffee date where we can discuss our interests and hobbies❀️

11

1

Cosmic Supernova

8d

INTP

54

Don't pretend

8

2

Elle

8d

ENFP

Virgo

8

2

Davyen

8d

ISFP

Leo

91

8

1

γ‚’γƒΌγ‚·γƒΌ

8d

INTJ

Leo

87

Being on time

4

8

Bee

8d

INFJ

Cancer

67

Being serious and honest

7

0

David

8d

ESTJ

Capricorn

To actually be like they described themselves ha ha

7

0

Skylee

7d

INFP

Pisces

Planning something to do, even just getting ice cream 🍨

5

1

Nana

7d

INTP

Taurus

Maybe a bit risky but if there was a good dynamic in prior exchanges I would probably be impressed if the other person had a plan for our first date (instead of the usual coffee date).

5

1

Nia Septiani

7d

ENFJ

Virgo

21

Just be present. Listen well, ask thoughtful questions, and don’t try too hard to impress

4

1

Daimy

8d

ISTP

Cancer

91

By being understanding and showing their true self

4

1

Alexie

8d

ISTJ

Virgo

87

It takes a lot to impress me. Mainly his intellect, manners, deportment. These are deal breakers (edited)

5

0

John

8d

ISFJ

Taurus

87

Someone that's not fake and shows interest on building on a conversation.

5

0

Edward

8d

ENFP

Aries

Like one piece. Thats it

5

1

Yazhir

8d

INTJ

Capricorn

Everyone says β€œbe yourself” but they forget that someone being themselves can be the very reason you’re turned off. Them being themselves can be the exact opposite of what you’re looking for.

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3

Penelope

7d

INFJ

Gemini

45
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0

Shannon Texoma

7d

INTP

54

Them not trying to impress me. People who try, don't come across as natural. Or even if it's natural it's like they are trying to one up me in order to be over me. I don't want to befriend a resume. I don't say up front all the amazing things I've done in the past in order to get their approval either. I don't feel like doing all this. Organic works better for my 🧠

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0

Noam

8d

ESFP

Aries

87

To be herself/himself

4

0

Tofu πŸœπŸ—πŸŸ

Author

8d

INFP

Capricorn

67

Share fries 🍟

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1

Michael

8d

ENTJ

Pisces

45

Well I mean, they would have to get me to attend a first meeting.

3

2

Juds

8d

INFJ

Capricorn

21

I think just being really sweet and a gentleman would be enough, bringing flowers would also be quite sweet πŸ‘€

4

3

Ally

8d

ISFJ

Aries

3

0

Emey

7d

ENTJ

Leo

34

A visionary, ambitious mind with emotional intelligence..A true gentleman brings flowers and gift..actions always speak louder than words 😌 πŸ’…

3

0

Pearl

8d

ISFJ

Leo

54

Emotional intelligence and Respect

2

1

Brady

8d

ENFP

Gemini

Being down to earth / open and not performative reserved, like it’s a competition in US dating culture.

3

0

Nathalie

8d

INTP

Aquarius

87

Being a true gentleman, nowadays it's really impressive...

3

0

Lina

7d

INTJ

Taurus

23

Honestly my standards have been lowered so far, at this point I might need a shovel to find them again. I’m impressed if he has a pulse and can form a coherent sentence πŸ—Ώ (edited)

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2

Aline

8d

INFJ

Virgo

87

Being communicative, well humorous and making the situation comfy is enough. (edited)

3

0

Marie

8d

INFJ

Pisces

67

A really clever joke, pun, or obscure fact. Bonus points if you make up that fact and I can't tell if it's real or not.

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0

Tommy

8d

ISTJ

Pisces

Being attentive

3

0

Claudia

8d

ENFP

Virgo

3

1

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