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Arthur
1mo
INFJ
Libra
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AΰΌ
1mo
ENFJ
Sagittarius
1 Award
Kindness. Even though the two aren't exactly part of the same category.. one speaks on character and cannot always be learnt the other speaks on ability and can be developed. Not everyone can learn to be kind, which makes it rare. Intelligence, however, has different levels and can be worked on.
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ππ₯¨π Koffyπ π°π
1mo
ESFJ
Sagittarius
Both are important factors .. Be kind and know how to be human is all we need... And with emotional intelligence you tend to be more cooperative, empathetic and thoughtful, fostering positive social outcomes and personal well-being... Cheers! π€ππβ¨οΈπ»π₯°π (edited)
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She's The ONE
1mo
ESTP
Capricorn
Of course KINDNESS π
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George
1mo
INTJ
1 Award
Both to a certain level, but intelligence would be my pick. When you say a person has high emotional intelligence, don't you mean he's empathetic? Therefore he attained certain characteristics of a kind person? Of course there are a lot of highly intelligent people who are not kind, but it is a different kind of intelligence. When we're talking about pure kindness, only an example of Don Quijote comes to my mind at 2am, maybe Jesus, but I won't discuss him, as my knowledge of the Holy Bible is not broad for now, although The Good Samaritan was told by Jesus I think. I'm not trying to talk about God you people, just an example. So, La Mancha and the Samaritan are kind, right? In the case of Don Quijote, he's not really intelligent, is he? He is almost too pure of heart. An opposite of him would be a psychopath probably, but what if a psychopath is not intelligent? Those two variables seem to overlap, but I think that although you might be kind by heart, if you're intelligent enough, so that you understand the alternative of being kind, which is being malevolent, and still choose kindness, that's an example of kindness on a much deeper level, maybe that's the case of Jesus, but again, I'm only starting reading the book of the books. Take it as you will, being tempted by the dark side and still choosing the force, being through darkness and going towards light. Knowing nothing of the darkness, living only in the light, or vice versa can lead to disturbing consequences in life of a given individual. (edited)
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LΓ©na
1mo
ENFP
Libra
It's not one or the other, both are important
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Ben
1mo
ENTP
Leo
Kindness, because no matter how intelligent you are if you don't have kindness it's all useless, like how the bible says If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
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γ’γΌγ·γΌ
1mo
INTJ
Leo
If you're intelligent then you are kind enough
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Artha
1mo
ISTJ
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Kan*^β’^*
1mo
ENFJ
Capricorn
Both
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Cheree
1mo
INTJ
Virgo
Intelligent people would be kind. There is no one or the other.
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Kies
1mo
INFJ
Virgo
Kindness fosters connection, intelligence fuels progress. Both are vital, but kindness makes life worth living. ππ
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Tia
1mo
ENTJ
Virgo
Intelligence come first
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Dandan; Not Not Dan.. The Real Dan. What is a Dan?
1mo
INTJ
Capricorn
Money. Then I can buy both.
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Simar Grewal
1mo
INTP
Sagittarius
Obviously both
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0
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Juris
1mo
INFJ
Libra
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1
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Shira
1mo
ESFP
Aries
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Beth
1mo
ENFJ
Scorpio
I think kindness wins over intelligence because I want someone to be kind over being smart
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Kas
1mo
INFJ
Sagittarius
Both.
5
0
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Emily
1mo
ENFJ
Pisces
Kindness
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0
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J-Klampππ
1mo
INFJ
Sagittarius
Both are important. But, kindness is underrated.
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GΓ©ne
1mo
INTP
Gemini
Kindness, I'm attracted to intelligent men, but if he's not kind, I'm not interested.
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Dylan
1mo
INFJ
Taurus
1 Award
Both are needed... Intelligence without kindness leads to being a sociopath. Kindness without intelligence leads to unintentional cruelty.
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Ijah
1mo
INFP
Gemini
you canβt have one without the other imo
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1
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Ram
1mo
INTP
Gemini
Both..
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0
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