I just noticed that some people stay on dating apps even when they already have a partner or when they say they’re exclusive with the person they’re dating. What could their intentions be? How would you feel if your partner was doing the same thing?

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Haiser

1mo

INFP

Gemini

67

They aren't looking for a backup plan. they are addicted to cheap validation. They use the app to feed their fragile egos with matches. If my partner did this, they would be single immediately. You can't build a future with someone who needs constant applause from strangers.

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Lilith

1mo

ENTP

Cancer

87

Me sentiría muy triste por que pensaría que esta buscando opciones aun teniéndome solo para el...

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15

Daphne

1mo

INFJ

87

Eu estou aqui procurando amigos e pessoas legais pra conversar Fora o boo, não tenho outros app (e nem redes sociais) Meu amorzinho sabe e não se importa Eu procuro manter conversas normais, sem nenhum tipo de conteudo de duplo sentido pq eu realmente amo muito ele Mas eu adoro conversar e encontrar pessoas para conversar sobre coisas aleatorias aqui é tão divertido 🥰

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Sara

1mo

INTJ

Libra

45

I would end it. Clearly he rather have someone else.

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Katie

1mo

ISFJ

Virgo

12
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2

Barbara

1mo

INTP

Sagittarius

87

Al no tomar una relación en serio y buscar más... Demuestra inestabilidad y no saber qué quiere en realidad... Gastar mi tiempo en eso? No gracias 😊

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Rima

1mo

ISTJ

Wow the comments here are a little extreme. I’m here for friendship, this app is not for dating only. My partner is also on this app. +(I also find the app feed entertaining) (edited)

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Luiz Rodrigues

1mo

INFJ

Cancer

Eu acredito que se a pessoa está buscando outras para conversar é porque ela não gosta tanto assim da companhia do parceiro.

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Carla

1mo

ESFJ

Leo

Pessoas que não sabem o que querem e nunca terão ninguém de valor ao seu lado!

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Arthur

1mo

INFJ

Libra

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0

Alane

1mo

INFJ

Cancer

78

Quem quer construir algo de verdade não deixa a porta aberta "só por garantia"😉

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2

Robbie

1mo

INFJ

Cancer

45

That’s their business. I’d much rather expect the best of someone, only to be proven wrong, that expect the worst and be proven wrong. Having said that, there is a dual function to the Boo app. It’s not exclusively a dating app site. It’s also used for friendships. It’s right there in the settings. I have a number of folks i follow/am following for that sole purpose. I enjoy their opinions and insights for strictly plutonic purposes with absolutely no physically intimate expectations or designs. I enjoy and value the opinions of both sexes (the fairer & not so fair. 😂). I’m so glad to have them every waking hour! (edited)

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Cecy

1mo

INTJ

Capricorn

87

Pues si yo hago lo mismo, creería que es como una relación abierta, pero si yo ya amo a esa persona y nos vamos a casar pues me sentiría muy mal y le terminaría

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Ritesh Singh

1mo

ISFP

Gemini

Often it signals attention-seeking or keeping backup options open; I’d see it as a breach of trust and feel uncomfortable.

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0

Belinda

1mo

INTP

Virgo

Al estar en una aplicación en el cual estás hablando con varias personas y a la vez andas en una relación obviamente está mal, porque dañan a la persona que salen y lastimarían a la siguiente persona que llegue a su vida

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Elisa

1mo

INTJ

Gemini

Sarebbe sicuramente una situazione spiacevole, creerebbe tristezza e cercherei di parlarne con calma

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midori

1mo

INTP

Leo

67

i usually dont go onto dating apps when with someone so i would definitely feel upset

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1

Shane

1mo

ESTJ

Aries

If my partner was still on dating apps while we were together, I’d feel pretty uncomfortable about it. I'd prefer we both focus on each other.

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Stanislav

1mo

ENFJ

Libra

Я даю людині волю і не лізу в приватні речі. Не моніторю телефони, сумочки, акаунти. У людей повинен бути приватний простір в якому нехай хоч з ґлузду їдуть в ньому. Не можна стискати людей настільки, щоб потім людина не могла продихнути. (edited)

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Diego

1mo

INTP

Sagittarius

87

Boo es una red social para conectar con gente. Si el enfoque es conocer gente afín a tus gustos no hay problema. Pero si el uso es para ligar es una falta de educación y respeto a tu pareja y una violación del código ético y moral. Cosa que está visto a día de hoy que es lo habitual y es lamentable 😶

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2

nabilll

1mo

INFJ

Virgo

mungkin dia melupakan suatu hal

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Daniel

1mo

ESTP

Leo

Me hace más gracia la gente que dice tener baja batería social pero luego se pega la vida en redes sociales!

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0

Ro Ny

1mo

INFJ

Libra

54

At least they state that in their profiles so decent ppl can avoid them. There are others who use them and they don't say that they have partners. Absolutely disgusting

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Andy

1mo

INFP

Scorpio

65

For me if a partner was still on a dating app while with me is a massive red flag.

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JaZz

1mo

INFP

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1

Jellybeann

1mo

ESTP

Scorpio

45

Sounds like avoidant behaviors 😆

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1

Omega

1mo

ENFP

Libra

Ampliar su círculo social tal vez

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eve

1mo

ENFJ

Taurus

45

that people is looking for someone to feed their ego, they need validation from another people that they are still attractive or whatever it could be. i would feel embarrassed, its already count as cheating and if i know my partner do that im gonna end the relationship immediately so he can has his time scrolling through the dating apps

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Lane

1mo

INFP

Capricorn

87

Mit den Antworten auf die Frage des Tages kann man ganz schön viele Menschen aussortieren, mit denen man lieber nichts zu tun haben will.

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àdel

1mo

ESFJ

91

it makes me feel insecure and disrespected when you keep your options open while we are exclusive.. and if he is defensive or lie, it's a major red flag

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Jade

1mo

INTJ

Virgo

65

I would definitely end it. If they can’t appreciate what they already have then they don’t deserve you 👏. Clearly they have checked out of the relationship at that point.

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Jessica

1mo

INTJ

Leo

32

Sabato scorso mi è capitato di uscire con uno che, appena ci siamo seduti al tavolo, ha pensato bene di presentarsi così: “Ah, comunque da due mesi sto con una. Però non sono contento perché lei è incasinata, vive separata in casa”. E quindi lui è sulle app per “tenersi aperte altre porte”.🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ Io l’ho scaricato alla velocità della luce; non credo sia sano investire in qualcuno che colleziona situazioni ambigue come fossero figurine. E soprattutto, il ruolo di piano B lo lascio volentieri a qualcun’altra. Ciliegina sulla torta: si è pure offeso perché l’ho rifiutato. Evidentemente nel suo mondo era un’offerta imperdibile 😅

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Stephanie

1mo

INFJ

Capricorn

87
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Angélique

1mo

INFJ

Taurus

67
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Mia

1mo

ISFJ

Aquarius

Tranquila dejar que haga su camino y hacer el mío e irme sin decir nada

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1

Kidoo

1mo

INFP

Leo

Unexcusable.

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1

Roes

1mo

INFJ

Aries

No excuses for a cheater If they do then let them do It shows who truly they are

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1

Maz

1mo

ISFJ

Gemini

67

Depends on what you guys agreed to do. Me and my partner are in an LDR. My profile states I'm already taken. We're not accepting any DM requests but we talked about this. We're going to meet soon and when that happens, we're deleting our accounts in front of each other. It's mostly symbolic. To tell each other that we want to continue our relationship and that we don't need to use the dating app.

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Atashi

1mo

ISTJ

Cancer

“There’s always someone better”

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2

Jo

1mo

ESTJ

Aries

if it’s an active choice to keep the app, clearly u feel like u want more bae so go an get it. I’d rather be with someone who just wants me!

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