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Does time really heal the pain?

11/17/2023

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Not necessarily. But you get used to it

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If time healed everything, there would be no trauma, mental illness, addiction, resentment, bitterness, or depression. Or they would exist temporarily, then they would dissolve and goodbye to the problem! In emotional life there is no time or space, everything happens in an invisible and permanent environment. It is up to us to identify, attend to and work on our emotions. The experiences we live, good and bad, remain in the memory of our soul, and cause us various consequences. time doesn't heal...acceptance maybe yes

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Lia

INTP

Aries

Time can certainly help in healing pain, but healing isn't solely reliant on time passing. It's also about what we do with that time. Often, it's the actions we take, the support we seek, and the lessons we learn that contribute to the healing process. Time offers perspective, allowing us to process emotions, adapt, and gradually find ways to cope with and overcome the pain.

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Julia

INTP

Capricorn

No, time makes you learn how to live with the pain

Yammy (Yamyam)🇵🇭

INFJ

Cancer

Not really it depends on you..

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Libra

1 Award

For me a big NO.. Acceptance and forgiveness can heal you ☝️

Pinky

ISTJ

Taurus

1 Award

It will but the scar still existed, just faded 🤣 So try to have less mistakes 🙂

Kristen

INFJ

Pisces

It... softens it. Removes it to a distance. Don't know if I can say any of my pain is fully healed. But it doesn't hit me as often, although sometimes it hits as hard. (Typing this while thinking of my friend who passed away when we were 18, I still get a hitch in my breath and an ache in my heart even 37 years later)

Natasha

ENFP

Taurus

Patricia

INTP

Aries

Time doesn’t heal anything in itself. What you do with the time, does.

Imay

ESTJ

Gemini

Time has a way of helping us heal. It may not erase the pain completely, but it can soften it and give us the strength to move forward. It's important to take care of ourselves and seek support along the way.

Sean

INFJ

Aries

I feel pain never completely fades; it just becomes more manageable as time passes. We learn to cope, adapt, and find strength we didn't know we had. The hurt may still be there but our resilience grows, and we discover that we can endure and thrive despite the scars.

Ree

ENTP

Libra

Time can heal wounds but not make them go away, because actually time only gives us "time" to make peace with our situation and "time" also allows us to find the happiness we seek

Zia

ENFJ

Libra

Will let u know as soon as it does

Allie

ENFP

Scorpio

Not for me, but I learn how to live with it and grow from it

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INTJ

Cancer

Sometimes, but i think it's you who does the healing as time passes by

Даша

INFP

Pisces

Well 6 months ago it was a terrible pain, now it's just a bad pain. By the new year I think I'm gonna be okay. (edited)

Anna

ESFJ

Scorpio

No, but time does have a way of changing your perspective.

Gem

INFP

Leo

No, but you can use the pain to learn, heal, forgive, or make all new mistakes and pain, and that will heal. 😅

Ryan taylor

ISTJ

Aquarius

No you just lean not to do it again or let someone do to you again

Saria

ENTP

Libra

No time doesn't heal the pain

Jessica

ENFJ

Leo

I don't think time heals all pain, I think we either grow with it or let it consume us...

⏹️ Sûrjît ⏩

ISFJ

Leo

Not entirely! It's just that we get used to it and learn well to deal with it.

AnnaBelle

INFP

Capricorn

It depends, it's like erosion. It can wear away many things but the deepest pain will always leave a hole.

Jacqueline

INFJ

Scorpio

It makes it less severe and allows you to reflect. Some things don't fully heal, that's what acceptance and forgiveness are for (more for you than the other). It may take longer than you think...it's a process for sure.

Demitrius

INFJ

Aquarius

It hasn’t yet, I’ll keep you posted.

Richie

ISTJ

Aquarius

Nope you just get used to it and gradually mind gets diverted to diff things (edited)

Hai

ESTJ

Taurus

Yes (for toothache), but not the pain in your heart. 💔❤️‍🩹🥲

SuSu

INFJ

Sagittarius

No...you only learn to live with it. You will always have the scars. Some wounds are deeper so the scars are bigger.

Hannah

INFJ

Pisces

I wish, but no. Time allows you to grow around the pain. It allows you to process and adapt, but the pain remains in some way, shape, or form.

Démon

INTP

Gemini

I mean, the older you get the more things you gotta deal with which puts (depending how it affected you) the older situation more in the background

Mark

INTP

Capricorn

Only if you let it. You have to first let go of grasping at the past

Nilakshi

ENFJ

Leo

No. No. No. No. No. No. No.

Dita

ISFJ

Sagittarius

If you actively put in the effort and the work to heal yourself, yes. Time passing by is just time passing by. It's what you make of it that matters.

Ishii

INFJ

Leo

I mean... yes and no Yes because it slowly fades or at least feels like it did because you got used to it and processed it No because if you think about it strongly enough you can very well relive that pain

Abi

INTJ

Time alone? No...intentionality, reflection, and choosing to move on are key pieces, BUT time helps significantly. Time offers perspective that supports the other pieces.

Noel

ISFP

Gemini

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Does time really heal the pain?

Questions Community

Not necessarily. But you get used to it

No, time makes you learn how to live with the pain

Not really it depends on you..

For me a big NO.. Acceptance and forgiveness can heal you ☝️

It will but the scar still existed, just faded 🤣 So try to have less mistakes 🙂

Time doesn’t heal anything in itself. What you do with the time, does.

Time has a way of helping us heal. It may not erase the pain completely, but it can soften it and give us the strength to move forward. It's important to take care of ourselves and seek support along the way.

I feel pain never completely fades; it just becomes more manageable as time passes. We learn to cope, adapt, and find strength we didn't know we had. The hurt may still be there but our resilience grows, and we discover that we can endure and thrive despite the scars.

Time can heal wounds but not make them go away, because actually time only gives us "time" to make peace with our situation and "time" also allows us to find the happiness we seek

Will let u know as soon as it does

Not for me, but I learn how to live with it and grow from it

Sometimes, but i think it's you who does the healing as time passes by

Well 6 months ago it was a terrible pain, now it's just a bad pain. By the new year I think I'm gonna be okay. (edited)

No, but time does have a way of changing your perspective.

No, but you can use the pain to learn, heal, forgive, or make all new mistakes and pain, and that will heal. 😅

No you just lean not to do it again or let someone do to you again

No time doesn't heal the pain

I don't think time heals all pain, I think we either grow with it or let it consume us...

Not entirely! It's just that we get used to it and learn well to deal with it.

It depends, it's like erosion. It can wear away many things but the deepest pain will always leave a hole.

It makes it less severe and allows you to reflect. Some things don't fully heal, that's what acceptance and forgiveness are for (more for you than the other). It may take longer than you think...it's a process for sure.

It hasn’t yet, I’ll keep you posted.

Nope you just get used to it and gradually mind gets diverted to diff things (edited)

Yes (for toothache), but not the pain in your heart. 💔❤️‍🩹🥲

No...you only learn to live with it. You will always have the scars. Some wounds are deeper so the scars are bigger.

I wish, but no. Time allows you to grow around the pain. It allows you to process and adapt, but the pain remains in some way, shape, or form.

I mean, the older you get the more things you gotta deal with which puts (depending how it affected you) the older situation more in the background

Only if you let it. You have to first let go of grasping at the past

No. No. No. No. No. No. No.

If you actively put in the effort and the work to heal yourself, yes. Time passing by is just time passing by. It's what you make of it that matters.

I mean... yes and no Yes because it slowly fades or at least feels like it did because you got used to it and processed it No because if you think about it strongly enough you can very well relive that pain

Time alone? No...intentionality, reflection, and choosing to move on are key pieces, BUT time helps significantly. Time offers perspective that supports the other pieces.

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