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Aug 20, 2026

Is kindness always the right choice?

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1mo

Kindness is usually the better choice but not always the smartest. Stay kind but don't be naive or a pushover. Don't let anyone walk over you. Been there, done that. It's a tough lesson to learn and unfortunately a lot of people are users... so be wise.

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1mo

I think you need to know how to measure kindness. Because for some, it can be perceived as weakness.

1mo

No, not always. Sometimes you have to show how big your teeth are. Not everyone understands that being good doesn't mean being spineless👹

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1mo

Yes always , if it doesn't start hurting ur self respect ✌️

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1mo

Mmm no. But being rude isn't the answer either imo

1mo

Kindness is the right choice as long as it doesn't become the price to pay for being accepted. Sometimes being kind also means saying no, setting a boundary, walking away. Because kindness without self-respect is not goodness. It's sacrifice dressed up nicely.

1mo

Kindness is a bottom line, if you ain't respected send the same energy back

1mo

Yes. Always. But being good isn't being foolish.

1mo

Kindness for the people who deserve it and silence for the people who dont

1mo

It doesn't depend on the ways you are, but always with respect.

1mo

No, kindness isn't always the answer.

1mo

My best choice was to always choose good, regardless of the level of evil in the world.

1mo

Yes

1mo

Of course!

1mo

If

1mo

Always. 😊

1mo

Well, essentially being kind is making interactions pleasant which should always be the right choice. But if it's used to be accommodating and avoid conflict or to be condescending; it's not the best direction.

1mo

A person who is too kind can always forgive everything

1mo

Kindness is what most people do. Then their are those people who abuse your kindness thinking your easy to fool . There is a point when it’s time to … what I was going to say isn’t polite so I keep my mouth shut.

1mo

No

1mo

No, kindness is not always the right choice. It must be applied correctly and not cross into the realm of submission.

1mo

if the other person is an idiot no

1mo

Yes, even though they will made you a mistake choose always to be kind.

1mo

Always...

1mo

Revenge is never.

1mo

Kindness is like a boomerang. Moreover, one should always be friendly; you never know what the other person is going through.

1mo

No

1mo

Good can be a good choice, but not always

1mo

If

1mo

Kindness is almost always the right choice. But kindness doesn’t mean tolerance, forgiveness, or unlimited access to you. Sometimes the kindest answer is a firm no.

1mo

If

1mo

Kindness is a good choice, but it doesnt have to be an "always" choice. You can be kind and still have boundaries. You can do good without sacrificing your own peace. Because if you dont set boundaries, your kindness can eventually hurt you, be taken for granted, or even be used against you. Kindness is good, but the peace you have while giving it matters too ✌️😊

1mo

Not always. I believe kindness is a beautiful choice, but it should never cost you your peace, dignity, or self-respect. Sometimes, being kind means staying gentle, other times, it means having the courage to walk away. You can have a good heart without giving everyone access to it.

1mo

it's right if it matches the portion and ability, don't push yourself

1mo

Yes. Always. We confuse kindness with weakness; nothing could be further from the truth. Being kind means not hurting anyone in any way and helping whenever possible... but it does not mean allowing ourselves to be trampled by others. Kindness, like respect, starts first within us. Kindness and respect go hand in hand and are bidirectional.

1mo

Kindness is essential, but it should not be confused with naivety. Be kind to everyone, but be careful whom you give your trust to.

1mo

In most situations, yes

1mo

Ahahahahaha! Unfortunately, modern-day Homo Sapiens perceive kindness as "weakness"!

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1mo

For me, yes...especially with women, you always have to be kind to them.

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