Are you using dating apps to feel desired, validated, or just entertained?

4/4/2026

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Abigail

1mo

INFJ

Pisces

45

No uso aplicaciones de citas, busco conectar con gente y hacer amigos, ya que en la realidad cuesta mucho uu

424

50

Kim

1mo

INTJ

Taurus

To find my husband

183

23

Adriele

1mo

INFP

Capricorn

Essa pergunta não foi muito certa, quero conhecer pessoas.

133

11

María José

1mo

INTJ

Aquarius

65

9

Zanu

1mo

ISTJ

Scorpio

87

Solo porque estoy aburrida. Las apps de citas están bastante en declive al parecer

62

6

Emili

1mo

ENTJ

Libra

67

Quero conhecer novas pessoas e quem sabe numa dessas conhecer alguém legal.

54

7

Rachel

1mo

INFJ

Cancer

42

5

Mai

1mo

ISFP

Virgo

Para conocer gente y sus culturas

33

5

Ramos

1mo

INTJ

Cancer

Nenhuma das opções, é para encontrar alguém para namorar mesmo.

30

15

Paula

1mo

ENFJ

Libra

87

Estoy disponible para una relación real. SOY DE CHILE, Santiago (edited)

24

8

Dolly

1mo

INTJ

Sagittarius

Quizás para sentirme un poco deseada, en persona no suelo encontrar alguien que se interese en mi AJSJSJ suena triste, aveces veo como a mis compañeras si les piden su número o les coquetean. Pero aparte de eso en estos momentos busco la socialización 🤓☝🏽

21

8

Gabii

1mo

ENTJ

Aquarius

Conocer gente ah

26

3

Barbara

1mo

INTP

Sagittarius

87

Si alguien desea validación, deseo y entretenimiento... Su lugar no es una cita ... Mucha gente confunde un chat con conexión con entretenimiento. Yo no busco, me gusta interactuar, si no hay química, entonces no hay nada. Mejor voy al cine. No me gusta estar mareada viendo a la izquierda 🫲🏻↙️ (edited)

22

5

aya

1mo

INFP

Aries

isn't it way more fun to learn people stories from across the culture, countries, jobs, hobbies- instead of focus to pursue and flirts them to date right after the first hi ;)

22

3

Vanessa

1mo

INFP

Libra

45

Seul endroit où les gens parle

18

4

Shane

1mo

ESTJ

Aries

20

0

Retsy

1mo

ISTJ

Aquarius

Deseo conocer a alguien

18

2

Josseline

1mo

INFJ

Taurus

87

It's nice to meet people

13

4

Milena

1mo

ISTJ

Gemini

54

Entre por entretenimiento y para poder hacer amigos

12

3

Lane

1mo

INFP

Capricorn

87

In der deutschen Sprache liest sich die Frage ziemlich bescheuert :) Ich validiere höchstens meine Studenten-Karte. Ich begehre höchstens Kuchen, weiß aber nicht ob dieser mich begehrt. Unterhaltung bekomm ich vor allem von Fragen die nicht der Datensammlung dienen. (edited)

13

1

Letícia

1mo

INFJ

Pisces

Nenhum desses eu acho, eu apenas quero encontrar alguém

13

2

A༗🂡⏳

1mo

ENFJ

Sagittarius

34

No. Not using them. [Before some st00ped person tries to tell me this is a dating app.. it isn't just that, most of us didn't join for that reason]

GIF uploaded by A༗🂡⏳

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2

Amber

1mo

ISFJ

Aries

To meet someone

11

2

Valentina

1mo

ESTJ

Aries

.

11

1

Ana Karen

1mo

ENFP

Cancer

Busco entablar amistades genuinas, la verdad me cuesta hac3r amistades de manera presencial jajaja

8

3

Caroline

1mo

INTJ

Aries

None of those things. I am looking for friends and maybe a life partner if I'm lucky enough!

8

3

Monica

1mo

ISTJ

Scorpio

87

Its the first time to use it when I decided to upload boo app just to give a chance to the idea of dating apps..

7

9

Kivi

1mo

INFJ

Virgo

87

Eigentlich keins von beidem. Ich benutze Dating-Apps nicht...um mich validieren oder unterhalten zu lassen...sondern ganz schlicht...um jemanden kennenzulernen. In der Praxis ist es hier vor Ort mit vielen Usern eher ein wirklich schöner Austausch...was ich auch total schätze...aber ich gehe da nicht rein nach dem Motto bitte bespaßt mich oder bestätigt mein Ego. Wenn sich daraus etwas Echtes entwickelt...schön. Wenn nicht...war es wenigstens ein interessanter Kontakt.

7

3

Tijana

1mo

INFP

Taurus

I am using them to date...

GIF uploaded by Tijana

8

1

Ana diaz

1mo

INTJ

65

Para conocer personas

6

5

Jagoda

1mo

ENTP

Leo

Poznać kogoś nowego bo samotność w dzisiejszych czasach dotyka każdego

8

0

Hes

1mo

INTJ

Scorpio

54

Ya bisa ketiganya.

7

1

Mia

1mo

ENFJ

Gemini

Kill time, talk to forein friends

7

1

Luna

1mo

ISTJ

Leo

67

I dont use dating apps in general. If I do it'll be for genuine connection and friendship hoping to develop to something more. I dont like the idea of leading someone on if they aren't looking for the same things as me, neither do I need the validation from strangers im possibly only talking to once. (edited)

6

2

Arthur

1mo

INFJ

Libra

21
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6

1

Mermi

1mo

INTJ

Capricorn

45

Me produce asco sentirme deseada, no necesito que nadie más que yo me valide y por último, lo uso para participar en comunidades pequeñas como la de los peluches de apoyo emocional o la del espectro asexual porque estoy segura que los miembros de esas comunidades son en su mayoría personas estupendas ✨️🧸

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8

Darya

1mo

ENTJ

Cancer

😒😒😒

5

1

S

1mo

ISTP

78

Apenas para conhecer alguém real mesmo

5

1

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