Posted Sunday, August 20, 2023
8/20/2023Question of the Day
What's wrong with people these days that they can't get to know anyone?
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3y
It's just a meat market. Everyone is disposable. There’s always someone “better,” “prettier,” etc. It's all superficial... plus in today's world, everything is needed immediately, people's brains are conditioned to a constant sea of information, constant stimuli, they have no patience to get to know each other on a deeper level, if something on the surface no longer appeals to them, they just move on. Also, people are scared of taking responsibility. Even if you reach a certain number of dates with someone, nothing is guaranteed, because some will run away if they start to have feelings; emotionally, there are many unattainable people. (edited)
3y
I think it's pretty damn simple. If you're not a hot guy or a hot girl, then it's clear that in 99% of cases, you have to create an online persona that presents you in a good light and might be found attractive. The biggest problem is that the apps work with first impression feelings, so if you're not interesting at all in the first moment to the girls, then obviously they won't give you a chance.
3y
We collect so much unnecessary information passively that most people don't have the energy to listen actively; they just want to be heard. Beyond the 22nd trap, it is mainly patience, respect, and the quality of communication that are severely lacking.
3y
If you're looking for an honest answer, it's because 90% of women visit these sites to boost their ego, while 90% of men just want to hook up and lie through their teeth. So that leaves 10% of each that you can really get to know, and well, yes. I would also like to meet new people, but unfortunately, it's hard for me.
3y
I would love to get to know you, but what should I do with you if we just lived like two ferns next to each other, because like many others, you don't want a child either. ...and I've been listening to this for a decade and a half. Long live enzyme emancipation.
3y
In short and to the point, you can only repeat what others have said. Women are selective; they dismiss the average-earning guy with a lack of stimulation, even if he can put together a coherent sentence. Those who remain "normal" are already tired of the countless dick pics after two words and lump all men together. Maybe 1 in 100 guys is normal. From the guys' perspective, it's boring; even if I match (thanks to the alignment of the planets) with a woman, she either doesn't reply or I get a response 2-3 weeks later. What really sets off the alarm is when I write to her, ask questions, and then 1 it's not a conversation but an interrogation (job, income, kids, etc.), and if you ask her back, you get no answer. 2 the one-word answers. Which you can't take anywhere, the whole thing is disinterested and careless; you write a meaningful question that would at least warrant a two-sentence answer, laying the groundwork for further conversation, and you get back one word in response... (edited)
3y
Nowadays, some people crave strong impulses, "chemistry" (I hate this term), instant sparks, and it's true what some have written, they have no patience/willingness to get to know the inner person (I mean both genders). I'm worried about the girls because they desire to be swept off their feet right away... this could be a routine and a warning sign... please, be more careful! (edited)
3y
The supply is too large, no one gets satisfied with anything. People think that everyone is replaceable and there’s always another one... Indeed, this is a buyer's market as someone wrote before me... There was even a time when someone greeted me on Bumble, asked me for a few pictures, and then didn’t say a word to me after that... I felt like a market horse being inspected for its teeth... The other thing I noticed is that it's impossible to meet someone as a stranger in real life because most people shut themselves off and either see you as some kind of pervert or just don’t give a damn...
3y
No one wants to commit, everything has become superficial, people don't fight for anything, they throw everything away because there's someone else who looks prettier or better at first glance. Plus, I don't think the guy has been born yet who would like me 😂
3y
You've grown old, you know. Everyone has become introverted. Which is a bit sad. And I don't think they can handle it if someone is significantly more open to such things than average.
3y
If you have to ask this, then you didn't really understand.
3y
Listen, this is today's trend, the current generation proves it. I'm trying too, but let's leave the offerings aside. It needs to be left behind. You know there's a saying, cheap products have many buyers. But those who are normal people, who really mean it seriously, are few. You know, that's the fashion, everyone with everyone, with grass, trees, snakes, frogs. Respect to the exception! But you know what, I still won't belong to such people.
3y
Both sides have already grown tired, the men consider it unnecessary to make an effort, or it's just something quick if it comes out of it or let's just leave it. The women... We are really terribly picky, after all, we are just looking for who we would like to be with. I haven't been here too long, but I've noticed that there isn't really much interest among the men to get to know each other. Everything has changed a lot in just one year. I missed out a bit focusing on other things, but back then everything wasn't so disheartening. (edited)
3y
It's not really possible to talk to the student, it gets stuck at a Q&A... (edited)
3y
I have a great time chatting with the sounds^^ Getting to know each other isn't bad in itself, it doesn't come with disappointment or expectations.
3y
Western culture
3y
Don't freak out bro, nothing is working out for me either, not even a conversation. 😂😂😂
3y
I think this feeling might be because dating now takes place in cyberspace, unfortunately, I find this very impersonal. Much better relationships are formed through personal acquaintance, and perhaps a person is more willing to accept more flaws from a flesh-and-blood person.
3y
This is a good question, I have no idea🤷
3y
Since dating sites have existed in the fast-paced world, they have also sped up. In the early 2000s, we still courted the ladies. Everyone had the patience for it. Today, this is unimaginable. Everyone wants everything immediately. And there are things that don't work without time. And everyone gets tired of this because everyone wants a partner, but when you run the same circle for the 15th time, you don't really want to do anything for it anymore.
3y
Good question, I think trust is already scarce..
3y
now at the beginning everyone wants to lay down how serious they are about what they earn and doesn't even give a chance to try to change their own or someone else's opinion. or just let things unfold. you might not find your life partner, you might find an important friend or just a cautionary example, but you'll never know because "they don't prefer the level of seriousness in a relationship that I do at this moment." the goal is more important than the path taken. everyone is impatient and we don't dare to confront.
3y
My personal example is that I am overwhelmed, and it shows on me! I know that many people don't stop to talk to me because of this; everyone is in some kind of state, and that's what the other person sees!
3y
I think it's prejudice and impatience🤔 but that's just one opinion
3y
Well, my personal experience is that there are a lot of unserious people who have no idea what they're looking for, and then when I ask, they say they're looking for a serious relationship. Then, 5 minutes later, it turns out they just want to hook up, but only if I’m the one who has to travel over 100 km for it.
3y
I don't think it's possible to get to know someone on a relationship level because people are either withdrawn or simply not interested in you/me. I'm experiencing the same thing; we can't do anything about it.
3y
This is a good question🤨🧐
3y
Who were they waiting for today that Erdogan would take with him, then the field is free again. It's interesting that here too, under every post, 99% of the comments are from guys..... Must be a coincidence.
3y
I think the picture shows the superficial aspects. If an unknown person joins your group and you don't look at the appearance, you might like the lady/gentleman sooner. These pages only show the superficial aspects.
3y
Be a little sweet and a little sour with everyone, and then they will give themselves to you. There are a few tricks on how to maintain a good relationship with your conversation partner.
3y
Everyone has huge expectations of the other, even though the chemistry might work, most people don't want to commit. Everyone wants to make decisions based on superficiality and appearance, but it's all gone to hell because we don't even get to the date...
3y
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