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What's the biggest age difference between you and your hypothetical other that you would be fine with?

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INTJ

Capricorn

Depends on their mental age rather than actual age

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ENFJ

Libra

I am talking about people of legal age and with the capacity to decide 🫶

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

5 years max, even that's pushing it. I don't believe "age is just a number". Sure, people mature depending on personal experiences and when those happen to them. There are some 25 year olds with better EQ than people twice their age. However, that doesn't have to change personal preferences. The way I see it, 80s kids and 00s kids would have initial differences in interests and other experiences (non personal). Smaller age gap means higher probability of having things to relate to, from the get go. Ideally, the person would have both the EQ and be within your preferred age range. (edited)

INFJ

Scorpio

I’m hijacking this question to point out there’s about a 200 year gap between Wolverine and (most?) of his love interests. You’re welcome. Seriously though, I think a 5 year gap either side. In some cases, I think I’m okay with someone more than 5 years older, but not more than 5 years younger (edited)

ESTJ

Leo

They can’t be dead or a minor.

INFJ

Pisces

Hmm. I used to think I didn't like dating younger men, but I went on a couple dates with a couple men that were 10+ older than me. And they were the most immature people I have met. That being said I'm now pretty open to whatever. Just not where they are in a different mindset than me.

ESFJ

Sagittarius

Love is a every feeling that ever existed. It is us, who defines it. Love has no age, no face, no true rules. Love is and always will be what we make of it... Most especially love shouldn't be hurting! Cheers! 🫶✨️🥰🫰🫶🌈🌻

INFJ

Libra

INFP

Aquarius

Depends on the age. If was in my 50's and I met a 63 year old man, I'd be okay with it. But right now, no more than a year younger and no more than five years older. Even that's a stretch tho

INTP

Libra

INFJ

Aries

defined “hypothetical other” as in delulu? or something legit? I’m 40 now..so i take max 50 yo (if I’m bias) 🤭look at him.. gorgeous! don’t mind me. 🫠😍😮‍💨

INFJ

Aquarius

I think it mostly depends on circumstance but I would say probably 10 years is the limit for me 🤷 I think the younger you are tho the smaller the age gap should be for example if you had just turned 18 then 28 would be kinda 🚔👮‍♂️

INFP

Aries

Maybe 3-5 years? I think if someone is too young or too old we won't have many subjects to talk about and our value systems maybe too different to combine in a mutually fulfilling way.

ENTP

Sagittarius

Well if we are speaking in hypotheticals then I would say two thousand years since I like history. (edited)

INTJ

Gemini

I've had a crush on a man that was 11 years older than me lmao I only like guys my age or older, never younger.

INFJ

Cancer

I‘m down bad in the trenches dude. I‘d take anything over 20.

ENFP

Sagittarius

10 years younger and 15 years older 👀🤷🏾‍♀️ (edited)

ENFP

Gemini

I'm okay with 10 to 13 years

INFJ

Gemini

5 years younger/older

ENFJ

Scorpio

Irrelevant when dynamics is good and fulfilling for both.

INTP

Libra

My daughters dad was 20 years older than me. Was never any issue with it!!

INTP

Capricorn

As long as you are both consenting adults age is just a number

INTP

Virgo

It doesn't matter to me, as long as there's mutual acceptance.

INTJ

Aries

5 years elder and 2 years younger is ok 😝

INFJ

Pisces

Half. I vibe with younger people. I have zero interest in guys my age. Sigh... edited to add that this isn't an open invitation. I don't want you in my dm's unless we've established a connection here on the message boards. I don't se*xt. (edited)

ISTJ

Capricorn

I'm 30 oldest I'd go for now is 45 😊

ENFP

Aquarius

There's actually a math problem for this, you take your age and cut it in half before adding 7. That's the minimum age you can date. Reverse it to find your oldest, subtract seven by your age and multiply by 2. That means the oldest I can date is 22, for right now. Do the math for several ages and you see that it is not linear. This makes complete sense, the older you get the lesser the difference in maturity. A 10 year difference won't seem so big when you're 50, y'know? However, if I'm not dating someone by 30, I don't expect to be dating in my 50s either. (edited)

ESFP

Aries

Age should be doesn't matter if u love each other and wanna be together

ISTP

Capricorn

It depends on mental age as well, I would feel a certain type of way if I went out with someone that acted like a teenager. 🤷‍♀️

ISFP

Aries

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INTJ

Leo

Age is just a number when two hearts are loyal ❤️✨ (edited)

ISTP

Aries

25

INFJ

Cancer

A notable age gap doesn't dictate the quality of a relationship, as long as both individuals have mutual respect, understanding, and shared life goals. Nonetheless, naturally, I desire to grow old with him as much as possible. 🤍☺ Also ME: I don't care about that age gap anymore, even if the person is twice my age. All I know is I'm tired of waking up early and working! I just want to lie down on a bed of money! That's why I'm off to find a 🍯 daddy! 🤣🤣🖤

INTP

Cancer

I think it depends on the people and how the couple interacts with one another. As long as everything is consensual (no kids, animals, or those without the ability to consent) then I don't care what people do in the bedroom or how old they are. But I personally don't date anyone more than 1 year younger than me but that's a personal preference.

ENTJ

Cancer

99+ where are all the rich grannies? 😆

INTP

Taurus

As a man I'm supposed to say my age minus 18 years, right? Seriously though, I don't think it matters as long as it's legal, moral and consentual (ie not grooming, or gold digging for an inheritance)

INTP

Aquarius

Yeah. What she said!

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Questions Community

Depends on their mental age rather than actual age

I am talking about people of legal age and with the capacity to decide 🫶

They can’t be dead or a minor.

Hmm. I used to think I didn't like dating younger men, but I went on a couple dates with a couple men that were 10+ older than me. And they were the most immature people I have met. That being said I'm now pretty open to whatever. Just not where they are in a different mindset than me.

Love is a every feeling that ever existed. It is us, who defines it. Love has no age, no face, no true rules. Love is and always will be what we make of it... Most especially love shouldn't be hurting! Cheers! 🫶✨️🥰🫰🫶🌈🌻

Depends on the age. If was in my 50's and I met a 63 year old man, I'd be okay with it. But right now, no more than a year younger and no more than five years older. Even that's a stretch tho

defined “hypothetical other” as in delulu? or something legit? I’m 40 now..so i take max 50 yo (if I’m bias) 🤭look at him.. gorgeous! don’t mind me. 🫠😍😮‍💨

I think it mostly depends on circumstance but I would say probably 10 years is the limit for me 🤷 I think the younger you are tho the smaller the age gap should be for example if you had just turned 18 then 28 would be kinda 🚔👮‍♂️

Maybe 3-5 years? I think if someone is too young or too old we won't have many subjects to talk about and our value systems maybe too different to combine in a mutually fulfilling way.

Well if we are speaking in hypotheticals then I would say two thousand years since I like history. (edited)

I've had a crush on a man that was 11 years older than me lmao I only like guys my age or older, never younger.

I‘m down bad in the trenches dude. I‘d take anything over 20.

10 years younger and 15 years older 👀🤷🏾‍♀️ (edited)

I'm okay with 10 to 13 years

5 years younger/older

Irrelevant when dynamics is good and fulfilling for both.

My daughters dad was 20 years older than me. Was never any issue with it!!

As long as you are both consenting adults age is just a number

It doesn't matter to me, as long as there's mutual acceptance.

5 years elder and 2 years younger is ok 😝

Half. I vibe with younger people. I have zero interest in guys my age. Sigh... edited to add that this isn't an open invitation. I don't want you in my dm's unless we've established a connection here on the message boards. I don't se*xt. (edited)

I'm 30 oldest I'd go for now is 45 😊

Age should be doesn't matter if u love each other and wanna be together

It depends on mental age as well, I would feel a certain type of way if I went out with someone that acted like a teenager. 🤷‍♀️

Reading comments

Age is just a number when two hearts are loyal ❤️✨ (edited)

25

99+ where are all the rich grannies? 😆

As a man I'm supposed to say my age minus 18 years, right? Seriously though, I don't think it matters as long as it's legal, moral and consentual (ie not grooming, or gold digging for an inheritance)

Yeah. What she said!

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