How do you spot a scammer?

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2y

ISTJ

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When they start mentioning "money" in any situations. šŸ˜Ž

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ESFJ

Libra

Their poor English skills

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2y

INFP

Aries

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I wouldn't know, I leave all my finances safe in the hands of a Nigerian Prince ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(ā ćƒ„ā )⁠_⁠/⁠¯

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2y

ISFJ

Aquarius

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When they want to go off the app Boo immediately after introductions.

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2y

INTP

Capricorn

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When they try to hurry and pressure you

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2y

INTJ

Aries

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Photo of young Asian woman, and obviously AI generated phrases

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2y

ISFP

Libra

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Asking your email address

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2y

INFP

Aries

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Someone who keeps asking for your picture but they cant send a new selfie of them and also saying too much perfect words of them self hahaha

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2y

ENFP

Libra

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Anything that involves gift cards, aggressive tactics to pressure you into paying for something, having to pay money to sell product or involving an "upline". Refusal to meet in public or safe zone or just meeting in general. People who go door to door for a service (electric company for ex) to try to get you to upgrade or switch services. Avoiding any legitimate questions.

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ENFJ

Aries

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When I say something completely random, and they stick to their script. Example: Them- how are you baby Me- I’m a potato! Them- I’m happy to hear that

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2y

ISFJ

Aquarius

I think the question should be how do you spot a legit person, since they are so rare.

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2y

ISFJ

Gemini

By the way they talk. Also always wanting to talk somewhere else platform wise. Asking too many personal questions too quickly.

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INFP

Pisces

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Ask them to send you a video of themselves juggling while standing on one foot and singing the national anthem backwards. If they can't do that, they're fake 🄓

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2y

ENFP

Sagittarius

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They will most like start off with "am" or never really say "i", which is grammatically sounds, but it's not how we run it in the states..

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2y

ESFJ

Capricorn

When they ask you if you have eaten today!

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2y

ENTJ

Pisces

Do a Google reverse photo check most of the time there's somebody they've picked off a d*** website that's what I found works doing a reverse 1st photo check. And if they're telling you what a awesome sweet great fantastic person they are and of course their English is broken in a lot of cases

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2y

ISFJ

Taurus

Weird, off spaced punctuation points. Like .

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2y

ENFJ

Cancer

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When they want to go Chat on a different platform and will not talk to you on the phone.

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2y

ESFJ

Virgo

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Exaggerating stuffs, sweet talker, feeling instantly connection, can't be reached out by phonecall and videocall, dramatically life story, asking you fo fill forms / talking bout crypto or investment

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2y

INFJ

Capricorn

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He make fake acount, fake picture as if him, told beautiful life of his parent with wealthy financial, give attention and much love.. but its too cringe.. he such a prince on fairytales lol

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2y

ENFJ

Libra

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Money,crypto, unrealistic photos( flawless picture frame insert photo type),misinformation ( say they live by you but clearly do not know the area), incomplete sentences or awkward use of words. Very short open ended responses

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2y

INFP

Aries

The Indian accent usually helps

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2y

INTJ

Aquarius

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When they immediately want to change apps to chat and can't remember anything you told them from the original dating app 🤣

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2y

ENFP

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Ask them something real specific in a selfie like "Hold up a shoe next to your head". Tell them you are in a place that does not exist like Derington, Texas. Ask them if they want a Steam card.

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2y

ESFJ

Here are some common keywords or phrases I've seen, "hello" "are you serious about relationships?" "Why are u on a dating site" "it was destiny for us to meet" if you see any of those, run away and don't look back.

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2y

ENFJ

Pisces

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Many different ways, especially spelling can't phrase questions right, they don't know American expressions the list goes on

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2y

INFP

Leo

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Their bad english šŸ’€

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2y

INFP

Pisces

Military, overseas, btc, oil rig, widow...the list goes on & on..

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2y

ISFP

Pisces

There are dozens of things that give them away. I'm not gonna list them or they'll just get better.

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2y

INFJ

Taurus

When they try to take it to another app

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2y

ENFP

Capricorn

easy all those people who offer bitcoin and earn money without working and do not even have a bicycle

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2y

ISFJ

Virgo

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Shh dont give all the secrets away

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2y

ENTP

Taurus

They seem to speak using a immediately identifiable form and manner. Like using particular words and also not giving to you all too much attention in reading your messages. Requiring you to repeat yourself numerous times, and whatever. There exist certainly unmistakable giveaways.

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2y

INTJ

Capricorn

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Dodgy links, generic lines, profile is common / dodgy, any talk about money / other.

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2y

INFP

Capricorn

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They start with! What do you do for a living šŸ¤” or where ur location

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2y

INFP

Aries

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When a good looking woman is interested in me 🤣

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2y

INFJ

Leo

I’d love to get to know you!

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2y

ENFP

Sagittarius

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When they look like something out of Hollywood and say they're interested. For me that my experience.

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