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Jul 26, 2023

If you had to change 2 things about yourself, one being in the past and one being in the present, what would you change and why?

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Procrastination for my past self, and being less shy for my present self

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When I was a seven years old I pushed another kid, he was ten, into a hole because I wanted to know what was the felling of falling from a high place, he started crying and couldn't answer my questions so I got bored and decided to go to my grandparents' house for my afternoon snack. He was found the next day, still alive. After that no one felt safe enough to let their kids play with me so I spent most of my childhood excluded. I could definitely change that psico moment jajajjaja

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Past- Go to therapy 10 years earlier because the quality of life it offered me can't compare to anything else Present- Manage money better because I tend to overspend for no reason and then I don't have enough to do some of the things I want

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I would get rid of my anxiety because it makes me unhappy and takes over my thoughts. I would also change my weight. I'm too big

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Past: Don't worry so much about pleasing people who didnt like me. Present: Not mistaking sugar for salt when cooking today 🥺🥺🥺

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Nothing to change..😅 things in my past made me stronger and braver.. I love myself ..my kindness is not my weakness ..its God blessings to help others around me..😊🥹 difficult but I love helping others..

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I would have raised a middle finger to my insecurities and self-doubt and not allow them to prevent me from enjoying different activities. Presently, I need to raise that middle finger even higher and not waste any minute on over thinking things.

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Stop believing in people negative comments about me in the past because it completely messed my confidence up still to this present day 🥴🥴 I'd love to have more confidence in myself 🫠

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Past me: Forgiving ppl who did me wrong. Present me: being too shy.

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Not a damn thing, it took me some lessons to learn that everyone is different & I will eventually match with whom is my vibrational equal. I regret nothing & that is how it will stay.

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I’d make my past self less concerned with pleasing my family and my present self to expedite healing from trauma to better able to make connections with people

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Past- Not gotten into that toxic relationship which left me scared Present- More self discipline

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In the past, I would change being insensitive. I may have hurt a lot of people before realizing my words had an effect. In the present, I would change fear. It stops me from a lot of things and I just don't want to be held back.

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I think I wished I would have been more social, make friends and stuff like that, present is still getting over and moving on from my rejected confession on Valentine’s Day, she was the only girl I talked to and because of that I still love her when I have nothing

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I’m not 100% sure but I would have liked to have my determination when I was younger. I was very go with the flow and I ended up missing out on a lot of things that I love because I wasn’t willing to fight to keep them and some thing I change for my present i’d like to take away my anxiety.

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The fact that I liked one guy for so long because as I got older I realized he wasn't worth it and getting a boyfriend cause I want one

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I'd care more about school and I'd stay away from drugs

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Past: I wish I spoke up about things Present: I wish I forgave myself for not speaking up (normalcy is beautiful to me)

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Younger: been more open to starting new friendships Present: I don’t know.

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Insecurities, past and present. Growing up i was insecure in everything. I always compared myself and even blamed myself to all the things that wasn't in favor of me. Maybe i was not worthy enough, maybe she's better, and all maybe's! And because of that till now i grow up having no confidence because of that insecurities i build. I was not being kind to myself to the point that I blamed myself in everything that aren't my control. Although it made me strong in some aspect in life, but i was so sorry to my childhood days for not being kind.

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1. I would have never gotten married. 2.keep being persistent and focused on my future

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Maturity and career progression

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I'd change my past shyness so I could have continued what I enjoyed in the past and changed my awkwardness in the present so I could start a conversation

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Nothing. I am who I am today because of what I have done in my past. And I love who I am today

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wish i would've been less anxious and just DONE stuff. missed out on a lot of opportunities. currently i still find myself having issues starting conversations on other dating apps. i never know what to say lol

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I would go back in time and make my speaking ability top notch like Jordan Peterson. Then I would make myself super social. That way I can skate by on easy street instead of studying endlessly and being a tool, because I'm not social. (edited)

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Past: spending more time with my mom because I didn’t know I would lose her so young Present: Stop spending so much money on things that are good for the moment and not for the future (edited)

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Not much to change other than being gullible thinking I need to change

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In terms of the past. I would definitely have dialed back the over-emotional responses I had to breakups. As of now. I'd like to just be more social and outgoing. I think its slowly happening though.

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My past hasn't been a good path for me to be proud with. I had Depression. For now had to get dogs to keep because I needed something to love without any misunderstanding or getting disappointed with.

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I wish I stayed single until I was in high school and I wish I had control over my anxiety currently:/

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I would change the past I would stand up for my self more and had protected my self more

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My skin 🥺

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No need to change a thing, things will always change for me, all i gotta do is roll with it and learn as much as i can.

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Social anxiety in the past and lacking discipline in the present

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Being less timid and open for my past self and working on anxiety for present me

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I would not change anything from my past nor from my present as all I did and do has the right impact... Mistakes are the best Teacher while good times are to be savoured forever ☺️💪

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In the past, I wish I enjoyed shopping at a little more than I do now. Present I wish I could remember what I like in command. I go blank when people ask me flat out.

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