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Posted Wednesday, October 9, 2024
24d
ENFJ
If you only had a few days left to say goodbye to a close relative/friend. What do you think your last conversations would look like?
Keen on seeing how people think and feel. Please don't give silly/joke answers, on this one. Probably can't answer, each comment, like I usually do. Will try acknowledge them all, as always, though ππ½ Thank you ππ½ββοΈ #question01 #family #friends #life #death #relationshipadvice
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Melissa
24d
INFJ
Capricorn
I think they would look like a combination of talking about cheerful nonsensical things (like the weather or television programs) as a pleasant distraction and just a way to spend time together and also reminiscing about wonderful times and love shared. Keeping the energy as positive as possible while honoring how the ill person wants to spend their time.
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Richard
23d
INTJ
Sagittarius
@Aβ€ βοΈβ³π§ still just let them go don't make it harder for them that it needs to be it's gonna be hard anyway. I'm not going to sugar coated it so all you can do is just say your goodbye, move on and live your life as best as you can. And if you think I'm just pulling this stuff from my ass my mom died 3 days after my 14th birthday so yea π«€ what a birthday present right π but don't worry time will heal almost all the wounds ππ (edited)
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Ray
24d
ENTP
Capricorn
The conversation would differ dependant on the person but the purpose will always be to demonstrate the love I have had for them so they know how valuable they actually are and I would express that I want them to share their wonderfulness with others like they have for me. (Sorry formating is bad I just typed and canβt be bothered to edit now)
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Timothy
23d
INTJ
Cancer
I had this experience almost two years ago, when my Tia Araceli died from cancer 5 days before Christmas. My last conversations were trying to mend the broken bonds with my mom, saying our farewells, laughing about the past, discussing what will happen to the family when she died, improving my Spanish, and, being Christians, reaffirming our faith in Jesus. When she stopped speaking and was slowly dying, I remember helping my Tio Junior (who is a pastor) give my Tia Araceli her last rites. A day later, she died with a smile on her face, so I'm told.π I have other situations like this, but this is enough sorrow for now.
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SuSu
23d
INFJ
Sagittarius
The important thing I would do is giving love. Reassure them that everything will be okay and that I'm ok that I have to leave. I would do with them whatever they wish for, so they have beautiful memories. I would hug them a lot, saying that I love them, also when I'm not here anymore, my love will never end. Would ask that they forgive me if I ever did them wrong and talk things out. Of course I also would cry but holding the one who loves you the most, who cries with you, share your tears...is helping to finde peace and acceptance.
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Camille
24d
INFJ
Pisces
I would say everything I never told them before. They would probably see a different side of me. I would express my deepest thoughts and feelings about them. I would also tell them how grateful I am for their life, and everything they did for me I truly appreciate and will never forget it. I would be very affectionate if i'ts okay with them π
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Patrick
24d
ISFJ
Capricorn
I gave it straight to my grandmother when she was talking to me on her death bed. Told her everything she needed to hear. Not the things she wanted to hear. And not because I was selfish to say the things that needed to be said either. Because then the lifetime of regret would've remained for all the chances I'd never gotten my lifetime before that.
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