I’m starting to doubt that I can get into men that much. I want to and try buuuut :/
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Brandon
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Pisces
4w5
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@Cadencemaybe you just need someone who connects with you on a deeper level. I get butterflies when I think of the littlestuff that the otherperson does that shows they really care about you. Or maybe you just don't like men that way idk 🤷🏻 you tell me haha
The thing is I'm really bashful so I blush and get butterflies way too easily which is really emberassing alot of the times 😅 but I hearrelationships are best when on that slow burn instead of the love at first sight butterflies type thing! So I wouldn't worry 😄 but it is a prettyfeeling when you're with that special person 😊
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Jacob
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ISTP
Sagittarius
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Only with very specific girls, she has to be a shylovingLatina that doesn't really know how to showaffection but definitely wants to. That's just me personally, but in that situation I've gotten some intense butterflies, it's a great feeling
It does happen yes...when you see that person your heart immediately starts pumping
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Jarrett
10mo
INTP
Leo
Yes. You just haven’t met that person yet
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Cadence
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ENFP
Capricorn
6w7
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🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃
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Justin
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INFP
Leo
4w5
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Yes
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Hamizan Law
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ENTP
Taurus
2w3
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Yes when they are my type. Although, it is rare, everytime I fell in love it happened and usually I fell in love with my bestfriend they are very caring but manipulative. It's kind of strange that a thinker like me is more empathetic than you. Maybe you never "love" someone and only "like" them. You mistook a mere crush as love. I saw a lot of enfp including my enfp closefriendsirl have the same problem as well. You are too self-absorbed and there is nothingwrong with that. What's wrong is wanting to be loved when you can't even love someone back. I don't know the detail of your life but from how you see things and my interaction with enfp I think you guys are better off beingindependent rather than dating. You all always do better that way. But to each they own. Its up to you how you decide your life
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Bex
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INTP
Capricorn
9w1
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Only with the first couple of kisses. It was weird af
That's really too bad. It happens when you are very attracted to someone and there is enough uncertainty that your body anticipates them asif they were sugar, drugs, and oxygen all rolled into one. One day you willmeet someone that does that to you.
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Kind of an odd question…do you ever get “butterflies” when liking someone or dating?
Not really an experience I have had and I’m starting to doubt it’s existence.
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10mo
4w5
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I absolutely do. But only when I am really into them, not just a simple crush
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10mo
6w7
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I’m starting to doubt that I can get into men that much. I want to and try buuuut :/
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10mo
4w5
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@Cadence maybe you just need someone who connects with you on a deeper level. I get butterflies when I think of the little stuff that the other person does that shows they really care about you. Or maybe you just don't like men that way idk 🤷🏻 you tell me haha
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10mo
6w7
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@Brandon lol
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10mo
2w3
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I used to and still do. I do get a bit nervous and I can feel my ears getting hot, but it doesn't happen often anymore.
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10mo
I've had butterflies for certain women on occasion and it wasn't for who I expected or follow any reasoning.
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10mo
Once
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10mo
I had once but oh man did that gos south fast haha. Id imagine it would be fine with the right person but getting that kind of feelings with a crazy person is not ideal
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10mo
4w5
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For sure
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10mo
The thing is I'm really bashful so I blush and get butterflies way too easily which is really emberassing alot of the times 😅 but I hear relationships are best when on that slow burn instead of the love at first sight butterflies type thing! So I wouldn't worry 😄 but it is a pretty feeling when you're with that special person 😊
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10mo
9w1
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Only with very specific girls, she has to be a shy loving Latina that doesn't really know how to show affection but definitely wants to. That's just me personally, but in that situation I've gotten some intense butterflies, it's a great feeling
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10mo
8w7
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All the time
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10mo
6w5
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I be feeling butterflies when clicking with someone who's matched and start a conversation first
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10mo
Yes indeed
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10mo
2w3
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I do but I always get the exterminator to come. Moths are annoying 🙄
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10mo
It does happen yes...when you see that person your heart immediately starts pumping
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10mo
Yes. You just haven’t met that person yet
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10mo
6w7
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🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃
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10mo
4w5
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Yes
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10mo
2w3
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Yes when they are my type. Although, it is rare, everytime I fell in love it happened and usually I fell in love with my bestfriend they are very caring but manipulative. It's kind of strange that a thinker like me is more empathetic than you. Maybe you never "love" someone and only "like" them. You mistook a mere crush as love. I saw a lot of enfp including my enfp close friends irl have the same problem as well. You are too self-absorbed and there is nothing wrong with that. What's wrong is wanting to be loved when you can't even love someone back. I don't know the detail of your life but from how you see things and my interaction with enfp I think you guys are better off being independent rather than dating. You all always do better that way. But to each they own. Its up to you how you decide your life
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10mo
9w1
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Only with the first couple of kisses. It was weird af
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10mo
6w7
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Yes. I can lay in bed and recall a kiss or another intimate type of event and get tingles that go up my spine. Not with everyone though. Only a select few.
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10mo
9w1
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Essa é a pergunta que frequentemente visita minha mente, também queria saber, nunca senti isso.
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9mo
I had butterfly feelings once....... It was beautiful and magical, one of the best moments of my life tbh. I'm really sorry you've never experienced it. 🫤
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10mo
3w2
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Nope, but I do got anxiety attacks a lot
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10mo
2w3
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Untill now... No.....
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7mo
8w9
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That's really too bad. It happens when you are very attracted to someone and there is enough uncertainty that your body anticipates them as if they were sugar, drugs, and oxygen all rolled into one. One day you will meet someone that does that to you.
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