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Question

It’s heartbreaking when you come to terms with the fact that maybe the safest way to live is alone.
You start to realize you’re getting older, and finding someone real to build a life with just isn’t likely.

Most people are either too into themselves, still chasing the streets, stuck on an ex, trapped in their past, or they come into your life just enough to confuse you. They want you, but not enough to choose you, and still won’t let you go.

We’re living in a time where being toxic is normalized, and it’s depressing to admit that being single might be the only way to truly protect your peace and mental health. Relationships today feel nearly impossible.

So many people lack honesty, consistency, and real communication. And the worst part is knowing exactly what you have to offer, but never finding someone who has a table worth bringing it to.

Etienne · Accepted Answer

You will find.
Just be ready to welcome it.
Even at the price of changing your point of view on the world.

Kyle · Answer

There are definitely a lot more people feeling this way nowadays. I keep fighting the urge to self-isolate, myself. I can't say what the exact causes might be, since it seems to be the world over, but I do feel like of all the toxic relationships I've been in and had to distance from, a running theme is an inability to step back from argument. If there's a disagreement, it has to be solved then and there, and not solved like a puzzle for the two people to navigate together, but an argument that needs won. Pretty much every relationship I've been in, I've said I want arguments to be about us vs the problem, not us vs each other, and everyone seems to agree on that as an ideal... but perhaps the level of hurt everyone has felt at this point in their lives, from parents, former partners, friends that weren't there for them or even the governments that oppress and betray their people, most people go into survival mode when conflict happens. And, survival mode is a singular thing--not a mode partners use against each other.

Zabby Ali · Answer

Your words carry so much truth and depth. It’s rare to see someone express pain with such grace. Protecting your peace is strength and the right soul will value that light you carry one day 🤗

Steven 🇬🇧 · Answer

Not sure if I agree with this.
If you have any medical emergencies, you're on your own.
Same if someone broke into your house.

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Réflection Community

You will find. Just be ready to welcome it. Even at the price of changing your point of view on the world.

Your words carry so much truth and depth. It’s rare to see someone express pain with such grace. Protecting your peace is strength and the right soul will value that light you carry one day 🤗

Not sure if I agree with this. If you have any medical emergencies, you're on your own. Same if someone broke into your house.

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