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Posted Tuesday, November 1, 2022
1y
INTP
Taurus
I wish people would quit lying about being victims of DV. It's making it so much harder for the real DV to be believed and heard.
I just saw another post where someone took advantage of someone's kindness, claimed they were abused and tried to rob her blind. Both her and her "abusive" bf were in on it. Also physically harming someone to the point of them either choosing self-defense or possible de👻th is NOT abuse. Self-harming yourself and blaming another for causing it is NOT abuse. Manipulation and betraying someone to the point of being "crazy" is NOT abuse. (edited)
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Natasha
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Taurus
Wtf dudee who would do that Some crazy ppl here Also manipulation is part of domestic violence sadly most of the victims of domestic violence dont even realize they are part of it until its too late like they are so blind from the "love" from their partner that showing them so they endure all that violence sadly :(
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Christopher
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ENFP
Sagittarius
My ex was physically blocking me from leaving my apartment one day when we were in an argument. I didn't want to escalate it to physicality and push her out of the way, even though I easily could've. I had already told her multiple times to leave, and she refused to do so. so I said I was going to call security, since she was a guest and I have a right to leave my own apartment and kick her out. She said "you know they won't do anything." If the genders were reversed they sure would. Especially the police. I think in some cases it's just an easy card to pull, because there's still a large bias around dv that men are perpetrators and women are victims every time. People will jump at the drop of a hat at any accusation of dv toward a woman, and a lot of girls know that. They're less likely to believe it the other way around. So I think that type of environment leads to people claiming dv when it's not because it's an easy way to win and secondarily to not have to take any responsibility/blame. (edited)
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