Boo
3y

Hmm??

Genuine question... but are people just clicking on a pretty or handsome face Hoping to get lucky or are most of you actually reading the descriptions about these people, seeing their interests, and actually trying to communicate instead of just trying to get lucky?

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3y

100% read those bios. Somebody can be gorgeous but I won't care if they have a bad personality.

3y

Reading descriptions and starting convos in hopes of finding more than a nice face.

3y

I usually read, and if I'm intrigued by both the profile and the pictures, I send a message. If I read either a red flag, or an explicit disinterest in someone like me, as much as I'm intrigued I pass. Many bios have changed my initial reaction to either pass or like, in both ways. Of course, profiles with no or little descriptions, I go by pictures, age, location, and personality only.

3y

I read the descriptions, send out likes when I'm interested. Never seems to get anywhere but hey, I try 😁.

3y

I read everything. If it's an empty bio, I'm not accepting it.

3y

Tbh I just swipe right without looking and just check the bio if I get matched which btw is 0. Cause reading about a person u are not sure about being matched and then swiping right hoping u will match and go on a deep conversation to know if they are how u imagined them to be is kinda trying. So just swipe right and then read bio if u match

3y

I read bios but apparently from the matches i've gotten nobody reads mine. And it shows with the questions they ask.

3y

I have to read the bios otherwise I might end up matching with a person who can't separate their political views from their personality Like a nazi or that stereotypical SJW we've all heard of

3y

<--- Looking for pretty face, hoping for a cool personality

3y

I would never waste my time reading bios. That tells you very little about a person, you get way more out of interacting... But I find very little interaction from this site. All I really want is a gym buddy, someone that will help me be a little better than I am today. But out of the hundreds of messages I have sent I have very few people even. Look at my profile. Probably because they are just looking for a pretty face. Also for fun women only swipe right on about 20% of men. So if you hook up from a dating site know you are are sharing the same guy with 80% of the women on the site.

3y

I always read the bio but I am an introvert person and I am a bit shy too. So sometimes it is a bit difficult for me to start a conversation

3y

i still haven't clicked with anyone, nobodys responded or liked me yet

3y

Learned a long time ago that the prettiest girl can have absolutely zero in common with me, and that makes for a very dull date.

3y

Just want to meet more people, so often i do both. A pretty face is certainly a plus but its not the only reason. I Read how women think of themselves, and generally I tend to be more attracted to the women that can communicate a grounded but confident demeanor. Thats the whole of it, I've done both- online dating blows.

3y

Bios and interests. I'm barely capable of talking to people as it is, (that's kind of why I signed up,) let alone someone I can't relate to. I don't think I've matched with anyone local though, just a few people who liked me first.

3y

I read everything. Attraction is important, but without compatability I'd be wasting both my time and theirs.

3y

I mean I enjoy good convo but whats wrong with occasionally trying to get lucky🤣

3y

Obviously the first one. That's the point right? What good is a pretty face with an empty head/soul? However that doesn't mean I don't have personal standards 😝

3y

Both, but definitely reading the bio for things I don't like and/or things I love in a person.

3y

I imagine a lot just swipes for looks, and I'll admit that I can't help but be biased by my initial impression. But isn't the whole point of this app to *not* just match on looks? If people wanna just match on looks, there are plenty of other apps for that

3y

I read every single profile!

3y

One can only be wishful and positively thinking that they are

3y

I read first and after look at the pictures if I like the description. But I look at the pics mostly to search for pets or other common interests ☺️ I try to send messages too (with the profile in mind), but I have to say I am too shy to make the first move most of the time 😅

3y

Really 😏 getting lucky? That's so 2013. We actually do care about stuff

3y

I try my best to read bios to see if I feel there could be a connection. I feel it is important to make sure you know what is expected.

3y

I always read through the profile

3y

I usually try to ask questions about the bio, show that I'm reading them and stuff

3y

I'm reading. Beauty is more a personality thing for me. I need to know the real you

3y

Little bit of column a, a bit of column b

3y

I don't know about others but I am trying to make a connection

3y

In all honesty, I look at the pic first to see if they're somewhat attractive to me, and if they arn't I won't even look at the bio.

3y

Reading the bios, honestly I have a hard time talking to others so reading the bio helps a bit

3y

Personally, I read each bio and send a like based on if I think we would get along well

3y

I look over the pics and scan the profile. Admittedly sometimes not reading everything they put under their profile pics. Since most people never respond anyway to any type of me trying to reach out. I tend to start with a like and see if they are even interested in talking. If no one wants to even talk, I don't spend all this time getting to know them. If they want to start chatting I will then study more who they are in detail.

3y

Little bit of both like to mix it up

3y

Both. I won't lie that I'm not looking for anything serious ATM, but if I don't at least see myself liking the person it won't last long

3y

I’m actually trying to read an connect with someone but kinda hard when people simply don’t respond at all

3y

Some ppl on here don't read bios at all, they just randomly clicking on a profile and can't even make a dialogue 🥴 I like getting messages instead of just likes, I rarely like back if there's no message lol (edited)

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