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Posted Thursday, March 23, 2023
1y
INFP
Aquarius
I guess let me know if you relate 🤷🏻♀️
It’s become almost impossible for me to date, mainly cuz I’m really anxious to meet new people. If they start showing little interest in me, barely messaging me or not putting in any effort, well I won’t either. I’ve made myself look stupid too many times in the past that I won’t show interest if the other person doesn’t. If we have a good connection though and they want to see where things go, unfortunately it takes me a bit longer to get comfortable. Don’t get me wrong, I love meeting new people, but if their energy is off, I won’t. It’s just hard to tell with some guys. Anyone else have this issue?
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1y
INFP
Cancer
yeah, my energy with them depends on themselves
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1y
INTP
Aquarius
In my mind you just want somebody obsess by you and romantic in an healthy way, with the same value of life than you. To feel comfortable with someone always take time and more if you have experienced trauma or toxic relationships. In my mind it's not good to rush everything because you can't know someone in just one or two months, but it's important to check if that person is healthy for you, want to evolute in an healthy way with you and if it's knows how to deal with your inner self, the balance of light and dark and vice versa. (edited)
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1y
INTP
Aquarius
I want to add something too really important. In my mind sometime in the intimacy in your relationship you will see, notice deeply things good or sad. And it's clearly important to don't talk about it first, if it's it something than the person choice to hide. In an healthy way you need to let your partner decide when she/he will be able to talk about. I mean never rush someone who don't be able, feel to talk. The only moment in my mind than you must talk if it's that make you feel anxious or bad. To be in couple it's a responsability and a balance of souls.
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1y
INFP
Leo
This won't happen this time.
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