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niha

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

7w8

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Idk why but i feel like i lose interest in people T.T No offence to anyone. Everyone is cool. But idk, i just feel like there's something wrong with me to lose interest in people like that. I'm not talking solely about romantic relationships, but I'm just tired of not making enough friends. Don't get me wrong, i don't mind being alone. But i also want to have some friends 😭

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0soz3

1 month ago

ISTP
Cancer

6w5

6

5

Get a cat.

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niha

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

7w8

7

8

You know what, you're right. That's the only possible solution 😌

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Trevor

1 month ago

ENFP
Libra

2w1

2

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A cat is the only solution

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niha

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

7w8

7

8

Indeed. In fact, there have been signs. Whenever I'm sad, i see cats on my feed. What more better sign than this?

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Liam

1 month ago

ISFP
Aries

7w6

7

6

Just got cats. Confirm they help.

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niha

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

7w8

7

8

Thanks for the review. Definitely going to adopt atleast 10 of 'em!

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Liam

1 month ago

ISFP
Aries

7w6

7

6

Np πŸ™‚

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Zackery Sprague

1 month ago

ENTJ
Aquarius

9w8

9

8

I feel like you should just let the chemistry flow between people. You will know who you like in the end. You just have to put yourself out there and keep talking to more people. That's my experience. Someone will not just come falling to your lap.

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niha

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

7w8

7

8

Yeah, i understand that. I can't force something and that's why i have been letting it flow. I also made some friends online obviously but still, I need someone to talk to. And I'm speaking this only after years of making friends and letting them go as I don't expect them to knock on my door or come falling to my lap 🀣

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Ramses

1 month ago

ENTP
Gemini

3w2

3

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I feel this at a spiritual level.

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niha

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

7w8

7

8

High-five πŸ˜”πŸ–οΈ

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Ramses

1 month ago

ENTP
Gemini

3w2

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Dani

1 month ago

INFP
Aquarius

5w6

5

6

I saw someone mention adhd but I wanted to elaborate that usually for adhd it's because when we have a hyper fixation or struggle with object permanence it applies to people and emotions as well. Hyper fixations usually fizzle out anyway, but when you struggle with object permanence as well (and as adults it's harder to find time to interact with people), it can be even more difficult to keep your feelings going. Like there's less fuel being added to the fire so it starts to shrink.

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niha

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

7w8

7

8

Yes, i was confused because i havent been going through things like that. Thank you for elaborating, this helped too 😊

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AquaticBoneZ

1 month ago

INFJ
Aquarius

Same... it's like you don't want to love anyone, but you want friends, you Wang people around but you don't want them to get too close, you want to have fun but you don't to want to get hurt...

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niha

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

7w8

7

8

Yeah, true :(

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Cyanide78

1 month ago

INFJ
Virgo

8w9

8

9

Possible ADD or ADHD

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niha

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

7w8

7

8

You think so? πŸ€”

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Cyanide78

1 month ago

INFJ
Virgo

8w9

8

9

No I don't think cause I'm not a professional but speaking from experience I was exactly as you just described in your post. Mine was ADHD but everyone is different. Just a possibility.

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niha

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

7w8

7

8

Interesting πŸ€”

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Trevor

1 month ago

ENFP
Libra

2w1

2

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Are you basing this off of virtual communication or are you actually going on dates with people. Because there is barely any chemical reactions from online interactions.

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niha

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

7w8

7

8

Hm, i would say virtual but then again i don't find interesting people offline as well. It's either I'm too boring or i don't make enough efforts to know someone

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Samantha

1 month ago

INFP
Sagittarius

9w1

9

1

I feel this so much! I hate it lol. I wish I could instantly get through the talking stage and feel like we've known each other for years πŸ˜… Talking to people can be exhausting. I've also recently been diagnosed with bpd & gad, so idk if that has contributed to it. Also, get a pet. They're good companions.

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