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Posted Friday, May 9, 2025
14d
INFJ
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Cheating
Cheating, then coming home and telling your partner you love them, is a whole different level of disrespect. It’s not just betrayal....it’s manipulation. It’s pretending nothing’s wrong while standing in front of the person whose heart you’ve shattered. You’re not loving them...you’re lying to them. You’re asking them to trust a face that’s already betrayed them. Love is respect, loyalty, and honesty. When you cheat, then speak those three words like they still matter, you’re asking them to believe in something you’ve already broken. It’s not love....it’s deception. Every “I love you” after betrayal feels like salt in the wound. It’s cowardice, not affection. What’s worse? You come home expecting their loyalty and devotion, while you’ve proven you couldn’t give them the same. You want their forgiveness, but you’ve already hurt them in ways they don’t even know. That’s a whole different kind of selfishness. Cheating isn’t just physical....it’s emotional, mental, and spiritual. It breaks a bond built on trust and love. And to still expect affection and intimacy, after giving those pieces of yourself to someone else? That’s entitlement, not love. If you really loved them, you wouldn’t have risked losing them. Real love makes you protective of their heart, not the reason it’s breaking. Cheating isn’t about protecting them from the truth....it’s about protecting yourself from the consequences. And when that truth comes out, they’ll realize those “I love you’s” weren’t love at all....they were just empty words hiding betrayal. The saddest part? You didn’t just lose a partner. You lost someone who loved you in a way you may never experience again.

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