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Jay

4 days ago

INTP
Leo

5w4

5

4

Dating feels like an endless cycle.

If you're being patient with the person, they ghost you. If you rush into it with a person, they lose interest quicker. Like man, I just want a relationship that's natural. πŸ’€ You feel me?

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Danielle

4 days ago

ESTP
Scorpio

No one likes labels or the whole commitment aspect of liking someone AKA relationship. And sometimes it's hard because some women don't want to talk to men because we are so tired of guys playing with our emotions and ghosting us as well that we have our guard up.

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Jay

4 days ago

INTP
Leo

5w4

5

4

No yeah you're right, it's understandable when there's some trauma or lack of trust involved, or commitment issues. I don't think there's a reason for it if everyone claimed their were on the same page though.

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Xavier

4 days ago

ENTP
Cancer

5w6

5

6

It's a cultural thing. You have to understand women get probably 30 or more messages a day so they have to make arbitrary checklists to dwindle the list down. Try outside the US if you can

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Jay

4 days ago

INTP
Leo

5w4

5

4

Yeah that's true, I feel like it's not as much the US as it is just the age of online dating and the tropes that come with it.

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Joe

4 days ago

ENTJ
Scorpio

It's hard out here these days

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Michelle

4 days ago

ENFP
Libra

For girls and women as well, I found a potential special someone, and he died this Am, it doesn't get more real, than that.....friend it is worth the emotional price.....

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Jay

4 days ago

INTP
Leo

5w4

5

4

I'm sorry to hear that. I agree with you, it can be worth that pain if that person is worthy or that impactful in your life.

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Michelle

4 days ago

ENFP
Libra

Ty, ty, I love people, and I believe in dating, it still is different....esp. when u are finding a balance....good luck in your quest....πŸ¦‹

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Jay

4 days ago

INTP
Leo

5w4

5

4

You're too kind. πŸ˜πŸ™ŒπŸΎ Love it. Good luck with your next journey as well. πŸ™πŸΏ

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Chivalry is very close to death, but..

Alot of people have the idea that chivalry in men is dead. Well, maybe most men, but not in yours truly. In my opinion, it's absolutely the most important action you can do to show respect and care in a relationship, especially if love is involved. If you arent able to open her door for her in a rainstorm, or take 10 minutes to actually write out a poem for her, or even cook and clean every other night, you dont love her. Love is like riding a bike. After you are patient and learn, it's all second nature. From my own experience, after 2 short months of learning how to love her, I was writing her poems and making her meals just because i wanted too, because she meant that much to me. That's love, if you ask me. Not arguing over nothing, lack of communication, hurting their feelings out of anger, cheatin. Its TOXIC. Relationships are you and your partner being the toughest team you can be. Its supposed to be you guys vs the world, not each other. I lost her in the end. I pray none of you ever experience losing someone that you love that much. Because when I fell in love with her, I fell for more than just her eyes and smile. I fell in love with her voice, the way she slept, her sneezes, her attitude, just, her. Watching her walk away, having to move on and fall out of love, it was the hardest thing I've ever had to experience. But I got on drugs and let them ruin me, make me toxic. I deserved it. Because once I picked the drugs before her, it wasn't love anymore. I guess my point is, chivalry is alive, it's up to you to figure out how to show it. Cause it could end in the blink of an eye, like mine did. If my words spoke to you in anyway, then I encourage you, be chivalrous and pick the flower, be gracious that she chose you, and never forget to always try to show how much you love her. The biggest feelings can be given through the smallest of gestures. :)

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