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Sasha

5 days ago

ENFJ
Pisces
If you have a chance to ...

get back to your ex, would you do it? why?

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Richard

5 days ago

INFJ
Capricorn

2w1

2

1

Move on and do better... They are an ex for a reason in most cases.

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Zola

5 days ago

ENFP
Libra

9w1

9

1

Nooooooooooooooooooooo and they're not bad people but an ex is an ex for a reason🤔

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Adam

5 days ago

INFP
Pisces

6w7

6

7

First Ex, yes, but she is married with children so too little too late as usual from me.

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Michelle

5 days ago

ENFP
Libra

Very 1st, maybe, but same, a marriage and children no way

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Elisha

4 days ago

INFP
Sagittarius

1w2

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No. I’ve moved on and don’t want to revisit, but I might not mind being friends because we were good friends beforehand. We had good times which I cherish, bad times, but obviously there was a reason we couldn’t work it out and ended it. Why try again when it’s very likely, eventually, the same or different issues would result in the same thing? I’m a big believer of if we couldn’t work through it IN the relationship and had to break up, we weren’t invested enough in each other or the future of the relationship to ever make things work and it’s best we move on to other people who we might actually be better invested in.

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Pygo

4 days ago

INTJ
Virgo

5w6

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No. I rather move on. Not use dwelling in the past. Once they're out, it's final.

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Joseph

4 days ago

INTP
Aries

9w1

9

1

I've thought about this for a long time now, and I'd say for me personally it would be a no. My exes are great people, with few exceptions but things didn't work out for specific reasons and that's okay. The one in particular that comes to mind, has moved on with her life. I've done the same, and we both have someone new in our lives. I adore my partner, and wouldn't trade her for anything. Growing up taught me that my ex and I just weren't right for each other anymore, though I wish her the best and wish things had happened differently so that it would have been more amicable and less painful.

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Kenneth Lim

4 days ago

ENFJ
Libra

1w9

1

9

Nope; because the only way something like that can happen is if both people have changed enough before they try again and most people do not possess the ability to change

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Aaron

4 days ago

ENFJ
Scorpio

Nah I'm good friends with her but we better off not under the same roof

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Jose

4 days ago

ESFJ
Sagittarius

I read this wrong. I thought it said would you get back AT your ex. Smh. The answer is still no though. That's just toxic

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Lucas

4 days ago

ENTJ
Pisces

Interesting topic. For me no. After my first tough breakup, I realized there are always someone better out there for you.

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Ash

4 days ago

ENFJ
Sagittarius

8w7

8

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It's a personal choice depending on the individual. My answer wud be, yes i would. BUT, I can't as I'm married & hv kids. Reason wud be, he couldn't move on to another relationship, although he had several one nights aft me for his needs. We were high sch luvz & it has been almost 2decades since our breakup (I broke up with him). Met him recently & got to knw that he's still in love wif me, despite the fact that he knows I have a family (he has been getting infos bout me thru our other sch frens). It's sad that he couldn't get over me, although I'm just an ordinary woman, compared to the status he has build for himself. Hope someone would love him more better than me. He deserves that special gal & love...

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Gvari

4 days ago

ESTP
Pisces

Alphabetical order....its a reason why your ex is your ex....xyz....y comes after x because its like...why.? Why would you?...move on for a and if applicable then start over with A

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Mandy

5 days ago

INFP
Gemini

1w9

1

9

no way

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Lucifer Morningstar

5 days ago

ISFP
Capricorn

7w8

7

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Maybe I would, maybe I wouldn't... Both choices have a ton of reasons behind...

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Onda

5 days ago

INTJ
Taurus

5w6

5

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no, she treated me bad.

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Ramses

4 days ago

ENTP
Gemini

3w2

3

2

Nah she's an ex for a reason

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