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Idk why but I guess because of depression but like I have no will to talk to people. Even as friends people message me and nothing. Same for romance I just feel nothing so I guess aroace is right. No interest in romance or sex just do my own thing.

I want friends tho but I just don't have the will to talk to people and plus I'm boring and a loser anyways 😔

Kenn · Accepted Answer

That is all depression. Hope you can get help.

Zach · Answer

Hey, stop that. Consider this you're inner voice and listen close..

You matter.

You are going through a tough time, I have little doubt, so am I, but it won't change if you start giving up. It will be the hardest task you will ever have to do, but you must do it anyway. 
If you want friends and a brighter future, it's the only option.

Yet, know you're not alone, there are legions fighting the same fight, and you, too, can overcome the obstacles in your path. 
But only you.

Sorry for the sermon 😆
When I see someone suffering, I am Compelled to help. That is my nature. I hope I didn't cross a line, but I do sincerely wish you the best.👍

Bryan · Answer

It's that boring, loser dialog driving that bus. I have a similar inner monologue and yeah it can feel unshakable. It's on us to push that shiz to the side. Even just little things, like maybe lose the description after Alice 🖤 You can be asexual if that's your vibe but being alone ain't it. All this interaction goes completely against what my inner voice wants but it's important and logically I know that, so here I am. 🤷

Steve · Answer

Same here. I don't know if mine is because of depression or not. I do battle some depression, and anxiety disorder, panic attacks included. But I've just become very apathetic towards most things in life. And because I struggle with a lot of issues with myself, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. I'm known to be very hard on myself. And always feel like I'm never good enough. I've been in relationships, but all have failed. I've been married, but that failed to, because my ex-wife was abusive towards me, as well as unfaithful. I've never really enjoyed sex with anyone I've ever been with. I only did it to please those I was with at the time. And then I got to the point I only did it so I wouldn't have to spend another night alone. And then it just got to the point where I really wanted to please others. But I really get nothing out of it. Not in the sense that most do. I have to have some kind of genuine intimacy/closeness with someone, and have that bonding with them. But as it stands now, I'm practically on the verge of being asexual. I'm just so tired of it all, and I've become disillusioned. And likewise, I more genuine friends to talk to. Single friends, as all of my closest friends have families of Their own, and I seem to be on the back burner. Especially since my closest friends don't even live in the area anymore. As for being boring, well that's all a matter of perspective. Heck, I'm sure other people find me boring as well. Not that I care about what other people think of me, though. Nowadays, I work, visit family and then go home. On the days I don't visit family, I just work and go home. But I have hobbies and projects to work on around my apartment. Or I might get out and go for a drive or something. But yeah my life is basically like a 80 year old hermit, at this point. Lol

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That is all depression. Hope you can get help.

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