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Posted Sunday, July 3, 2022
1y
ENFP
Gemini
Is this worth it? Or should I run?
I'm really bad at ignoring red flags since I usually want to "give them a chance", especially when that person is exciting and alluring. I recently went on an incredible date with a gorgeous guy who was so passionate, intelligent, interesting, and made me feel so special and desirable. I have had body image issues my whole life, but he said I had the body of a Greek goddess (he's Greek and was trying to compliment my curves) and actually made me feel sexy! However, he confessed that he used to have control issues in the past and he has a violent streak. He's already showing his possessive and controlling tendencies, and I'm already starting to feel anxiety over his moods and potential jealousy. Should I give him a chance and see where it goes, or am I ignoring all the flags again and should I cut ties and run? (Sorry for the novel, but thank you for reading 😊) (edited)
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1y
INFJ
Pisces
Not even dating yet and hes controlling and possesive? And you already have anxiety?! Run.
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1y
ISTJ
Capricorn
Personally I'd run. Feels like there beginning of the abusive cycle.. I've lived it.. they are very good at this cycle https://domesticviolence.org/cycle-of-violence/
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1y
ESFP
Aquarius
Um ... the answer is a big fat no. It doesn't matter how good someone makes you feel if they're a nut job, they're still a nut job. They act that way so they can cozy up to you and do something terrible, this is how a lot of murders and abuse stories start. Leave as soon as you can, the phrase "don't stick your d*** in crazy" applies to women too you know.
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1y
INFP
Cancer
Id say if you dont even feel safe or comfortable sitting down and having a straight convo with the guy about this then ya, running would be your best bet imo. Without being able to communicate then all that awaits is trouble, especially if he has a past like that x.x i wish you the best of luck tho!
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