I’ve never been in love before and I have no idea what it’s supposed to feel like.
{"options":[{"text":"Heart racing, excited, butterflies, giddy","numVotes":44},{"text":"Warm, comforting, gentle, always there ","numVotes":66},{"text":"Like a best friend, funny, laughter, hanging out ","numVotes":34},{"text":" Like a family member, chilling, just being yourself, sharing feelings and problems ","numVotes":11},{"text":"None of the above, you don’t have a clue ","numVotes":53}]}
Heart racing, excited, butterflies, giddy
21%
Warm, comforting, gentle, always there
32%
Like a best friend, funny, laughter, hanging out
16%
Like a family member, chilling, just being yourself, sharing feelings and problems
5%
None of the above, you don’t have a clue
25%
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You should add stupidity and madness to the list. Love does make you do stupidthings, good and bad, and drives you insane. It can make a totally grounded, focused and diligent person into a dribbling fool of stupidity. Physiologists do say that love is a form of madness.
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Via
2mo
INFJ
Virgo
8w7
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This is only the best part,what about the Worst?😆😆
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Matt
2mo
INFJ
Pisces
1w2
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Don't ask ppl what it feels like to be in love... experience yourself and you'll know...
Not harsh but rather it be a mystery then someone telling u omg it's amazing omg it's terrible omg like ... it's w.e
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Terry
2mo
INTP
Scorpio
Their need to be an all of the above
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JRz 👻🖤😈
2mo
INFJ
Scorpio
9w1
9
1
Um, no one's explanation of what they think what "love" is will be agreed uponeveryone. What I think love is will be different to the previous or next person who gives you their opinion on how they perceive for love to be.
You might think love is spending 24/7 with your partner. Someone else will think that's annoying, clingy and overbearing.
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Riva
2mo
INTP
Scorpio
2w3
2
3
Why isnt annoying an option.
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Ines
2mo
ENFP
Aries
4w5
4
5
For me it's a mix of all. I'm fresh in love. Fell head overheels. Sometimes when i know i'm about to meethim i'm giddy, excited and can't sit still. But then everything feels so warm. I can be myself talk about unimportant randomstuff but also about my deepest fears without being afraid he won't take it serious. I'm a scaredy-cat and he calms me down. When i start to overthink he gently hug me and takes away the uneasiness. But at the same time he gives me motivation when i feel down. So for me it's all at once ☺️
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Michael
2mo
INFJ
Scorpio
6w7
6
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All the above and beyond it I say truthfully. But when or hopefully it doesn't end. Then it's a pain that nothing can ever be strong enough to make it go away from you. And that's the hardest part of love to deal with.
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Dave
2mo
INTP
Taurus
2w1
2
1
I don’t think there’s a standard feel to make a vote on. You’re trying to apply an empirical value to something that is a subjective experience.
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Ron
2mo
ESTJ
Sagittarius
5w4
5
4
All of the above and then some. It's a weirdRollercoaster of emotions. Sometimes good sometimes bad. But finding that sweet middle ground is where it's at
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Mark
2mo
INTJ
Pisces
4w5
4
5
It feels like the second option from the top, but also so much more. It feels like there’s a flame in my heart, that is both a huge wildfire and a comforting warm campfire.
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Duane Leon Irby
2mo
ENTJ
Taurus
9w1
9
1
Honestly, I think it depends on the type of love. It can also mature and deepen over time
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Astharea
2mo
ISFP
Scorpio
9w1
9
1
We all think that first love is "the real one", the best, something that can never happen again... well, it's not. The second one, that one is the true, and the real one,at least,to me. 😊🥰
I care deeply about people, but I care for them like they’re children and I’m proptecting and looking out for them. I don’t know what it’s like to adore, admire, and be attracted to a partner
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Kara
2mo
ISTP
Sagittarius
2w3
2
3
Every experience is different, but you weren't far from it with the warm and gentle then add that with your best friend with occasional butterflies.
But most importantly when you are in their arms. It just feels home.
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Spencer
2mo
ENFJ
Scorpio
6w7
6
7
Add another option "Twitterpated". That excitement is real. It's not always real love, but it definitely helps. It just depends on why you feel the excitement. Finding someone who understands and cares about you, and you also with them. And want to share your life or even whatever time you still have left together. Yeah. That's it, Twitterpated. 🙂
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Michael
2mo
INTJ
Taurus
6w7
6
7
I thought lot of people fall in love with someone who doesn't know they exist? Ehmaybe not. 🤔
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Ruben
2mo
ISFJ
Aries
9w1
9
1
It's never to late. Love comes in many forms
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Lesley
2mo
ESFJ
Taurus
2w3
2
3
It feels like the first two together to be honest, someone who's always there for you, heart racing, butterflies, gentle, warm, giddy, loving.
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Ben
2mo
ENFP
Scorpio
Why im here 😂trying to find out myself 😂
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Richie
2mo
ISTJ
Taurus
1w2
1
2
Starts out as #1 then settles into #2 as time passes.
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Morgana
2mo
INTJ
Capricorn
All the good and all the bad together. Yes excited and heart racing and crazy and happy and psychotic and butterflies and going absolutely insane.
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Ross
2mo
ISTP
Leo
"Heart racing, excited, butterflies, giddy" is the honeymoonperiodaka first 3-6 months. The rest of the answers (other than none of the above) are "love"/safety with someone you trust.
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Michael
2mo
INTP
Sagittarius
5w4
5
4
Really all of them to an extent. The first person I fell in love with was mainly my best friend though.
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Never been in love before. What does it feel like?
I’ve never been in love before and I have no idea what it’s supposed to feel like.
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Heart racing, excited, butterflies, giddy
21%
Warm, comforting, gentle, always there
32%
Like a best friend, funny, laughter, hanging out
16%
Like a family member, chilling, just being yourself, sharing feelings and problems
5%
None of the above, you don’t have a clue
25%
208 votes
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2mo
8w7
8
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Also wondering if it’s too late for me?
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2mo
2w1
2
1
Never to late never been in love either but hoping one day in time will both get there just have to have hope
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2mo
2w3
2
3
The look of your kitty in the second photo 🤣
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2mo
6w7
6
7
Never too late
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2mo
as long as we are still alive. its never too late
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2mo
6w7
6
7
Obviously not, it just takes time to build a deep connection especially the more logical you are. A part of you wants connection regardless so it must be valuable enough to try
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2mo
1w2
1
2
Why would it ever be to late? Only if you close yourself off to the possibility.
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1
2mo
2w3
2
3
All of the first 4, and then pure pain when you loose it.
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2
2mo
8w7
8
7
😭😭😭
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2mo
4w5
4
5
Yup, it feels like sinking and drowning in an ocean of lava, dont it
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2mo
6w5
6
5
All of the above to various degree 😆
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2mo
You should add stupidity and madness to the list. Love does make you do stupid things, good and bad, and drives you insane. It can make a totally grounded, focused and diligent person into a dribbling fool of stupidity. Physiologists do say that love is a form of madness.
4
0
2mo
8w7
8
7
This is only the best part,what about the Worst?😆😆
3
0
2mo
1w2
1
2
Don't ask ppl what it feels like to be in love... experience yourself and you'll know... Not harsh but rather it be a mystery then someone telling u omg it's amazing omg it's terrible omg like ... it's w.e
3
0
2mo
Their need to be an all of the above
1
1
2mo
9w1
9
1
Um, no one's explanation of what they think what "love" is will be agreed upon everyone. What I think love is will be different to the previous or next person who gives you their opinion on how they perceive for love to be. You might think love is spending 24/7 with your partner. Someone else will think that's annoying, clingy and overbearing.
2
0
2mo
2w3
2
3
Why isnt annoying an option.
2
0
2mo
4w5
4
5
For me it's a mix of all. I'm fresh in love. Fell head over heels. Sometimes when i know i'm about to meet him i'm giddy, excited and can't sit still. But then everything feels so warm. I can be myself talk about unimportant random stuff but also about my deepest fears without being afraid he won't take it serious. I'm a scaredy-cat and he calms me down. When i start to overthink he gently hug me and takes away the uneasiness. But at the same time he gives me motivation when i feel down. So for me it's all at once ☺️
2
0
2mo
6w7
6
7
All the above and beyond it I say truthfully. But when or hopefully it doesn't end. Then it's a pain that nothing can ever be strong enough to make it go away from you. And that's the hardest part of love to deal with.
2
0
2mo
2w1
2
1
I don’t think there’s a standard feel to make a vote on. You’re trying to apply an empirical value to something that is a subjective experience.
1
0
2mo
5w4
5
4
All of the above and then some. It's a weird Rollercoaster of emotions. Sometimes good sometimes bad. But finding that sweet middle ground is where it's at
1
0
2mo
4w5
4
5
It feels like the second option from the top, but also so much more. It feels like there’s a flame in my heart, that is both a huge wildfire and a comforting warm campfire.
1
0
2mo
9w1
9
1
Honestly, I think it depends on the type of love. It can also mature and deepen over time
1
0
2mo
9w1
9
1
We all think that first love is "the real one", the best, something that can never happen again... well, it's not. The second one, that one is the true, and the real one,at least,to me. 😊🥰
1
0
2mo
6w7
6
7
It's the last thing freed from Pandora's jar.
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0
2mo
1
0
2mo
All of the first four
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0
2mo
4w5
4
5
I'd say like a best friend, or someone you feel like you've known your whole life
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2mo
8w7
8
7
Your probably suffering from aspd boo
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1
2mo
8w7
8
7
I care deeply about people, but I care for them like they’re children and I’m proptecting and looking out for them. I don’t know what it’s like to adore, admire, and be attracted to a partner
0
0
2mo
2w3
2
3
Every experience is different, but you weren't far from it with the warm and gentle then add that with your best friend with occasional butterflies. But most importantly when you are in their arms. It just feels home.
1
0
2mo
6w7
6
7
Add another option "Twitterpated". That excitement is real. It's not always real love, but it definitely helps. It just depends on why you feel the excitement. Finding someone who understands and cares about you, and you also with them. And want to share your life or even whatever time you still have left together. Yeah. That's it, Twitterpated. 🙂
1
0
2mo
6w7
6
7
I thought lot of people fall in love with someone who doesn't know they exist? Eh maybe not. 🤔
1
0
2mo
9w1
9
1
It's never to late. Love comes in many forms
1
0
2mo
2w3
2
3
It feels like the first two together to be honest, someone who's always there for you, heart racing, butterflies, gentle, warm, giddy, loving.
0
0
2mo
Why im here 😂trying to find out myself 😂
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0
2mo
1w2
1
2
Starts out as #1 then settles into #2 as time passes.
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0
2mo
All the good and all the bad together. Yes excited and heart racing and crazy and happy and psychotic and butterflies and going absolutely insane.
0
0
2mo
"Heart racing, excited, butterflies, giddy" is the honeymoon period aka first 3-6 months. The rest of the answers (other than none of the above) are "love"/safety with someone you trust.
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0
2mo
5w4
5
4
Really all of them to an extent. The first person I fell in love with was mainly my best friend though.
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