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Saul

1 month ago

INFP
Virgo
Question

You read a conversation from your spouse and their bestfriend talking about a guy told your wife if she was single because he thought your wife was cute and wanted to hangout. Then your spouse replied to her bestfriend that she wanted to hangout with him but she would feel bad because she's with me. Should I still get mad at her just because she wanted to hangout with him? *her bestfriend told her not to hangout with him*

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Prairie

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

2w1

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Your feelings are valid and you should let your wife know instead letting resentment build up. Reasonable jealousy is healthy for relationship. However, fact is she did refuse to hang out with that guy because she thinks of you. When she said “she wants”, it can just be a moment of weakness and probably that guy seems potential. As for your wife, not following ones’ emotions and desires to do the right thing is a sign of integrity and maturity.

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Saul

1 month ago

INFP
Virgo

Here's the thing, another argument is gonna show up eventually because she's gonna think that I've been going thru her messages. I'm just waiting and trying to see if she will bring it up to me. She talked to her bestfriend about it but so far she hasn't brought it up to me. It's not the first time that happened. My wife secretly was trying to go to a concert that I wanted to go too with my gay brother. I didn't know until my brother told me weeks before the concert but he thought that my wife told me already. She already had bought the tickets as well. I confronted her about it and told me that "she bought the tickets but didn't knew if she was gonna go or not". So why buy the tickets and not know if she was going

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Phillip

1 month ago

ENTJ
Aquarius

1w9

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Sounds like your wife isn't into you?

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Saul

1 month ago

INFP
Virgo

I hope your wrong, I honestly do 😞

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Phillip

1 month ago

ENTJ
Aquarius

1w9

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I hope I'm wrong too

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Kelly

1 month ago

ENFP
Sagittarius

Have you talked to your wife yet? What did she say?

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Saul

1 month ago

INFP
Virgo

Not yet. I'm trying to wait and see if she brings it up or not but she hasn't yet

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Kelly

1 month ago

ENFP
Sagittarius

It always makes a situation worse to try to trap someone with a secret instead of just talking to them. Maybe she didn't think it was a big deal or worth mentioning. Don't keep this a secret because obviously it's bothering you and that poisons the marriage bed. She probably knows something is wrong from how you're acting but doesn't know what it is. That kind of situation causes long term damage in a marriage. You need to talk to her.

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