Well depends. First off, don’t just give them a second chance unless they truely understand what they didwrong, how it hurried you and made you feel and they have anidea on how they can fix their mistake.
Secondly, you got to have the resolve to forgive them for what they have done and (if your someonewho blames themself for their misfortune) you got to be ready to forgive yourself for whatever happened
If they are truesorry for what they have done and both of you are fully willing to forgive eachother and yourselves, then they deserve a second chance with both your goals in line towards improving your pastrelationship
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Anika
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INTP
Pisces
Depends on the type of situation
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INTJ
Leo
6w7
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depends on the reason and the situation
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Lauren
2mo
INFP
Pisces
Only if it was a good relationship and you can’t stop thinking about that person and still love them.
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Ross
2mo
ISTP
Leo
Put in a mirrored position, would you want a second chance? Would you believe you deserved one. And, if you had closefriend or family member who was cheated on, or was the cheater, how would you advise them to proceed?
I hope those questions help.
It's not a question I can answer for you.
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Elijah
2mo
ENFP
Gemini
Yes. Aslong as the first chance wasn't wasted/taken advantage of.
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Sera 0596574765
2mo
ENFJ
Aries
It depends how the first chance it goes
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Lily
2mo
ESFJ
Aries
No.. I'm telling you now, it's a big no 😂 you will thank me one day
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Lesley
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ESFJ
Taurus
2w3
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I agree with @Cortland ....if it really was a genuine mistake then yes, forgiveness and second chances are good.
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Sapphire
2mo
INTP
Cancer
It depends on what they did
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Kara
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ENTP
Leo
4w5
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I give more chances than most deserve if I'm in the relationship and trying to make it work, but once I'm done I'm done. I never redate exes.
And thirds and fourths and fifths and sixths and sevenths. People are flawed and prone to patterns or ruts as we don't likechange. Soresults we're looking for could take a while to be clearly seen.
It depends, but personally I'm not really for second chances. If you broke my trust in some way it's very difficult, if nearly impossibile, to have it back.
Depends on the situation, but overall I'd say give the kidanother chance 😉
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Piripi
2mo
INFP
Scorpio
Use too but not anymore
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Kingdom
2mo
ENFP
9w1
9
1
The answer you give says a lot about you. People who say no are only saying no because they know they themselves don't deserve a second chance & are deflecting blame on others.
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Antonis
2mo
ESTP
Aries
It depends but in general yes I do people deserve second chances!
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Jeron
2mo
ENTP
Sagittarius
2w1
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Using Shiv Roy for this was a setuplol. But i think it all depends on circumstances and how things played out ultimately. Some people can be forgiven for certain things that’s others can’t
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André
2mo
ESFP
Leo
Yeah, but it depends ofc, most of the people doesn't know how to deal with a Lot of things so it's ok to commit mistakes, There's certain cases that obviously is not a good idea but There's another cases which is worth ir.
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Joshua
2mo
ENTP
Libra
8w7
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Depends on with persoon
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Martin
2mo
ENFJ
Gemini
If our lessons with the specific person are learned and the universe says to let go, then there is no need to give a second chance. Sometimes it's not about the chances, it is about us and the simple question "Do we need something more to improve within us while being in a relationship with them?" The so called "bad" experiencesexist to improve our endurance to the point where we know exactly where and when to invest our energy. So yeah. Are you ready to move to a new version of yourself?😉
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Daryll Kok
2mo
ISTJ
Aquarius
Hmmm...I still believe in second chance but depends on her mistakes...If her mistakes kept occurrence constantly, then it's a 🚩...However, if she's clean from trouble and want a second chance with me...I'll considered it but she must pay her mistakes by repeat the same date as before since the first date as a reconciliation of our relationship...
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Dylan
2mo
INFP
Gemini
I want to believe they do but I always regret giving them.
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Michał Stępień
2mo
INFP
Gemini
6w5
6
5
I always say that forgiveness is up to you, but giving a second chance depends entirely on the other person
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Tlhompo
2mo
ESFJ
Pisces
If a glass is broken you can try as hard to fix but it won't be the same as before
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Depends. If it was a genuine mistake then yes, if it was something that took active thought to do (i.e cheating) then no.
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2w1
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Well depends. First off, don’t just give them a second chance unless they truely understand what they did wrong, how it hurried you and made you feel and they have an idea on how they can fix their mistake. Secondly, you got to have the resolve to forgive them for what they have done and (if your someone who blames themself for their misfortune) you got to be ready to forgive yourself for whatever happened If they are true sorry for what they have done and both of you are fully willing to forgive eachother and yourselves, then they deserve a second chance with both your goals in line towards improving your past relationship
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2mo
Depends on the type of situation
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2mo
6w7
6
7
depends on the reason and the situation
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2mo
Only if it was a good relationship and you can’t stop thinking about that person and still love them.
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2mo
Put in a mirrored position, would you want a second chance? Would you believe you deserved one. And, if you had close friend or family member who was cheated on, or was the cheater, how would you advise them to proceed? I hope those questions help. It's not a question I can answer for you.
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2mo
Yes. As long as the first chance wasn't wasted/taken advantage of.
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2mo
It depends how the first chance it goes
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2mo
No.. I'm telling you now, it's a big no 😂 you will thank me one day
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2mo
2w3
2
3
I agree with @Cortland ....if it really was a genuine mistake then yes, forgiveness and second chances are good.
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2mo
It depends on what they did
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2mo
4w5
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5
I give more chances than most deserve if I'm in the relationship and trying to make it work, but once I'm done I'm done. I never redate exes.
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2mo
4w3
4
3
Most of the time no
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2mo
And thirds and fourths and fifths and sixths and sevenths. People are flawed and prone to patterns or ruts as we don't like change. So results we're looking for could take a while to be clearly seen.
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2mo
8w7
8
7
If its a real mistake without intention, yes~with caution. Ppl make mistakes, however; cheating is not a mistake, its a decision, then ~ to eternal never see again.
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2mo
Depends on their sins like if it's just minor and unintentional then forgive but if it's major and intentional then no. Just my perspective tho.
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2mo
8w7
8
7
Nope, given the chance- they would do it again
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2mo
6w5
6
5
May be depends upon person 🙃
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2mo
I will not be cheated on again. But, I don't believe that they don't deserve a second chance, it'll just be with someone else.
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2mo
5w4
5
4
Depends on what they did and how important the relationship is.
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2mo
In attempted murder? No. In relationships? I don't see why not.
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2mo
No
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2mo
It depends on the person has done.
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2mo
It depends with there's first chance how was it
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2mo
4w5
4
5
It depends, but personally I'm not really for second chances. If you broke my trust in some way it's very difficult, if nearly impossibile, to have it back.
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2mo
2w1
2
1
Just people on general or someone special?
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2mo
8w7
8
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only once
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2mo
Depends on the situation, but overall I'd say give the kid another chance 😉
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2mo
Use too but not anymore
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2mo
9w1
9
1
The answer you give says a lot about you. People who say no are only saying no because they know they themselves don't deserve a second chance & are deflecting blame on others.
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2mo
It depends but in general yes I do people deserve second chances!
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2mo
2w1
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Using Shiv Roy for this was a setup lol. But i think it all depends on circumstances and how things played out ultimately. Some people can be forgiven for certain things that’s others can’t
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0
2mo
Yeah, but it depends ofc, most of the people doesn't know how to deal with a Lot of things so it's ok to commit mistakes, There's certain cases that obviously is not a good idea but There's another cases which is worth ir.
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0
2mo
8w7
8
7
Depends on with persoon
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0
2mo
If our lessons with the specific person are learned and the universe says to let go, then there is no need to give a second chance. Sometimes it's not about the chances, it is about us and the simple question "Do we need something more to improve within us while being in a relationship with them?" The so called "bad" experiences exist to improve our endurance to the point where we know exactly where and when to invest our energy. So yeah. Are you ready to move to a new version of yourself?😉
0
0
2mo
Hmmm...I still believe in second chance but depends on her mistakes...If her mistakes kept occurrence constantly, then it's a 🚩...However, if she's clean from trouble and want a second chance with me...I'll considered it but she must pay her mistakes by repeat the same date as before since the first date as a reconciliation of our relationship...
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2mo
I want to believe they do but I always regret giving them.
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2mo
6w5
6
5
I always say that forgiveness is up to you, but giving a second chance depends entirely on the other person
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2mo
If a glass is broken you can try as hard to fix but it won't be the same as before
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