Wtf is this? The definition of short term relationship?

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So my bf said "I don't care about sex, I will not introduce you to my family or friends, I don't ever want to live with you, I will not see you mon-fri, you get your 30mins on your lunch call if I'm not still working, I'll see you Saturday and Sunday, 18hrs is the safe limit to spend time with you before you get made up problems about me not seeing you enough or me not wanting you sexually because now I won't sleep over on Fridays because you were upset I didn't have sex with you that night" there's never never as long as there is mutual contact. I'll definitely walk away of he crosses a boundary but his childish behavior with relationship problems pushes me into a spiral of fear and anger. So..  even though he also said "I do love you, I want to be in a relationship with you, but this isn't going to last long term" well, if he's shopping more carefully, I wonder if I should? Like, talk talk talk, meet public x amount of times, break it off with my current bf if he hasn't broken up with me first, hope for the best when we agree to a relationship and have a real future with a man who has mutually found what he was looking for if we met. Ifhl

Aleks · Accepted Answer

Twiggy... Goddamn... Just break up with him, and stop jumping on every single guy that looks at you... Have some self esteem...

Mercy Njeri · Answer

You truly deserve way way better.
If that's what u looking for then cool.
But if not .please don't lower yourself to fit in someone else's box just because u think u can find a box that can fit u perfectly

Daz · Answer

It sounds like he's married and can only doo things like that when his Mrs is away

Erika · Answer

😩hon I don't know you but please gather your self worth and move on. That man doesn't love you.. and even if he says he does that's not a relationship that's at best a friend that doesn't consider your feelings whatsoever. Why stay somewhere you're not comfortable?

Mademoiselle Amy · Answer

Whutttt???

Mihai · Answer

it sounds more like he's barking orders than setting rules and treats you more like a distraction when he feels he has the time?not sure.He says he wants a relationship but doesn't sounds like he means it

Marie · Answer

He literally said “f u ck off”

Stephen · Answer

Just some small advice on the subject, learned from experience.  Never give anyone more of yourself than you get in return.  Never

Mirko · Answer

Most of the people given you similar advice ... I will not give you advice but a translation of his words ...

"Am under a lot of stress with other things in life. You are pushing me to introduce you to family and friends. You are pushing me to live with you. You are pushing me to spend more time with you, and 30 min of care on working days is all I can give you as am under pressure by many things. You  are emotionaly needy and pushy. You are drama queen that cares only about her feelings that are often  negative"

I would assume that this COULD ( but I don't know him or you ) be a translation of his words.

hua · Answer

run！！！！

Caz · Answer

I don't know you but I agree that you should move on.
Ask yourself this...
If this was happening to someone you love (like a daughter/sister/close friend) ....would you stand by and watch and say nothing?
I also think this 'man' is married!

Korey · Answer

Break up with him. He's got someone else

Wtf is this? The definition of short term relationship?

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Twiggy... Goddamn... Just break up with him, and stop jumping on every single guy that looks at you... Have some self esteem...

You truly deserve way way better. If that's what u looking for then cool. But if not .please don't lower yourself to fit in someone else's box just because u think u can find a box that can fit u perfectly

It sounds like he's married and can only doo things like that when his Mrs is away

😩hon I don't know you but please gather your self worth and move on. That man doesn't love you.. and even if he says he does that's not a relationship that's at best a friend that doesn't consider your feelings whatsoever. Why stay somewhere you're not comfortable?

Whutttt???

it sounds more like he's barking orders than setting rules and treats you more like a distraction when he feels he has the time?not sure.He says he wants a relationship but doesn't sounds like he means it

He literally said “f u ck off”

Just some small advice on the subject, learned from experience. Never give anyone more of yourself than you get in return. Never

run！！！！

I don't know you but I agree that you should move on. Ask yourself this... If this was happening to someone you love (like a daughter/sister/close friend) ....would you stand by and watch and say nothing? I also think this 'man' is married!

Break up with him. He's got someone else

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