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Posted Friday, November 1, 2024
1mo
ENFJ
Cancer
Red flags 🚩
What do y’all consider red flags or warning signs when online dating? 🚩🚩🚩❌‼️💃🏼 And if you see a red flag in someone you’re talking to do you tend to give them the benefit of the doubt or run as fast as you can? 👻 (Would love to hear some girlies opinions too! 😎) #dating #love #relationship #friendship #boo #life #psychology (edited)
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Frank Toth
1mo
ENTJ
Libra
If you're vibing with someone, you make time for each other, not find time. We all have lives, yes, but if the person you're interested in continually takes hours, if not days to respond, then they're not invested in you or interested to see what may happen.
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Alex
1mo
INFP
Aquarius
The issue is that many red flesh could be explained away . Takes days to reply? Busy with job. Wants daily attention? Is just used to interactions with loved ones. Bad table manners? Maybe their manners are not bad, but both of you come from different cultures. It's all about what you can tolerate. Remember to openly talk to your partner. However if they react defensively when you even suggest a mistake, run for the hills lmao xD
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♡ Câz ♡
1mo
ISTJ
Libra
If someone is misleading, and doing it on purpose (eg. For attention or validation, or to sound better than they are, or lying because they are used to being like that, etc...) then I likely may run... because I would not want to get to know them only to know it wasn't really who they were IMO. If they have some other red flags, it would depend because I'm relatively understanding. Like if they were not massively red and maybe towards amber side of red then I may give them the benefit of the doubt...Because some people may be toxic based on who they were previously associated with (eg. They had bad experiences, they didn't have the best peers, etc...) and they could maybe become more aware of their situation and self-realise they can improve and be better - Obviously they would need time, patience and maybe professional help in some cases. But as a friend. Obviously most people would be attracted to people with green flags so ultimately I'd seek more connections with those people first (edited)
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Kauffy
1mo
INTP
Virgo
".. and treat me like the queen that I am," or, ".. the finer things in life."
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Darren
1mo
INTP
Leo
If one of their 5 opening questions is " How much do you make?" thats a big red flag..
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Laverne
1mo
INFP
Taurus
Even after they initiate contact via direct msg and you get about 4 word msgs gong over about two weeks and you’ve written more than that to try and get an ernest conversation going, you wonder why they’re bothering. I put an end to that. Learn from that and read between the lines better.
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AJ aka Moonchild 🌕🌙
1mo
ENFP
Cancer
Forget the red flags and green flags, I would want someone with no white flags 👇
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Heiko Huster
1mo
ISTJ
Sagittarius
If I find someone with a red flag, I am skeptical and try to lure these people out of their shell with questions
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Honey
1mo
ENFJ
Capricorn
I like it
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Ash
1mo
INFP
If I see red flags, I will laugh it off and talk about it to them as considerately and respectfully as possible. This will not make me run away. However , if she tries to play the victim and turn the tables over me, manipulate everyone against me and try to cyber bully me by provoking feminists, pickup artists and other groups that are ready to attack anyone a woman points her fingers at, that will make me run away. The biggest red flag is manipulating those who care for her (eg. feminists ,whom I did not mention as horrible people but as polarized overly)into attacking her personal nemesis when she is utterly evil . I also hate it when a woman is ready to do illegal activities to make money or get promotions in work and then justify it somehow. What are your red flags? (edited)
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Chris
29d
INFJ
Aquarius
The second they mention investments into get rich quick schemes or similar. Or just want money. People who are happy to talk a lot but never want to meet up. People who are more interested in pushing their social agenda and beliefs rather than looking for love and understanding their partner. About 80% of my matches 😞
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Vickie
1mo
INTP
Aries
Depending on red flag... but some of them are so interesting study objects, so why to miss opportunity and not to observe and study them...it could be nice experience. Of course I'm not talking about some really abusive people...it's better to run from this kind as fast as possible.
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Jamieson
17d
INFJ
Leo
If the profile already talks about their ideal relationship as one where the other person is expected to give more. Swipe left
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Ryles
1mo
INFP
Aries
Someone that moves too fast. One sided conversations, one word answers, immediately gets sexual.
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